Beauty and The Buzz
3 Quick Ways to Up Your Own Beauty Buzz Without Make Up! by Kerry L. Gray
If you want to have people buzzing about your beauty, focus on these three areas and you'll notice improvement fast!
MANNERS: Good manners are so important in determining how others see you. Slow down and take the time to say please and thank you with a smile. Help when you see others who need help. Receive compliments graciously and give them generously. Be polite and kind. Above all, work at improving your table manners. Take the time to set a beautiful table and eat there, not stooped over the stove or counter. Sit back and sit up straight.
Do not slump your shoulders and hunch over your food like a dog. Eat slowly and with your mouth closed. If you know you have bad table manners then train yourself to improve them. Bad habits can be broken with work and will power, so do what you have to do to create better table manners in yourself. Eat in front of a mirror, or put reminder notes on the table all around you. Pretend you are eating at the White House. Practice until it becomes second nature.
You will improve your social interactions in all areas, not just meals, if you improve your manners.
CLOTHING: Your clothing speaks to the world about who you are and how you feel about yourself. Clothes need not be expensive or designer labeled to make a statement. Clean clothes that are not torn or in need of repair should be your highest priority.
It does matter if you wear those jeans with holes in each knee that won't zip up all the way with your underwear sticking out. People you interact with make immediate judgments about you based on your appearance. That might be sad (it isn't) but true (it is). Go through your closet now and throw out everything that does not fit, that cannot be repaired or that you have not worn in a year. Be ruthless.
Don't keep things that look bad. You care too much about yourself to go around looking like a bum who does not understand that we are judged by our appearance.
THE WAY YOU TALK: Attractive clothes and good manners will not matter one bit if you ruin your impression with bad speech habits. We have all met people who looked nice, but turned us off once they started talking. We are probably aware of some of our bad speech habits.
Those can be changed with attention and concentration until good speech patterns replace those old, tired ones. All bad habits can be broken. Examine your speech for offending words, and replace those words, especially if you say the same thing over and over or use the same phrases repeatedly. The biggest offender in speech, however, is cussing, or cursing.
Using four letter words and words that might be offending to others frequently and routinely is a handicap that reduces your chance for success in the world. One poor girl I know says F___ this and F___ that all the time, and I mean every other word! It is noticeable and distracting, and she won't ever be as successful as she could be with that bad speech pattern. Make it a point to ban those words from your vocabulary. Give yourself every chance to create a favorable impression to others and to sustain it.
A girl does not have to have a fancy haircut with highlights, the latest designer shoes and bag, bikini waxes, nails and a tan to be attractive, gorgeous and sexy. Pay attention to these three areas: your manners, your clothes, and your speech.
Become the beautiful princess you see in the mirror to all the men and women you meet and interact with. Be the best that you can be! -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com
If you want to have people buzzing about your beauty, focus on these three areas and you'll notice improvement fast!
MANNERS: Good manners are so important in determining how others see you. Slow down and take the time to say please and thank you with a smile. Help when you see others who need help. Receive compliments graciously and give them generously. Be polite and kind. Above all, work at improving your table manners. Take the time to set a beautiful table and eat there, not stooped over the stove or counter. Sit back and sit up straight.
Do not slump your shoulders and hunch over your food like a dog. Eat slowly and with your mouth closed. If you know you have bad table manners then train yourself to improve them. Bad habits can be broken with work and will power, so do what you have to do to create better table manners in yourself. Eat in front of a mirror, or put reminder notes on the table all around you. Pretend you are eating at the White House. Practice until it becomes second nature.
You will improve your social interactions in all areas, not just meals, if you improve your manners.
CLOTHING: Your clothing speaks to the world about who you are and how you feel about yourself. Clothes need not be expensive or designer labeled to make a statement. Clean clothes that are not torn or in need of repair should be your highest priority.
It does matter if you wear those jeans with holes in each knee that won't zip up all the way with your underwear sticking out. People you interact with make immediate judgments about you based on your appearance. That might be sad (it isn't) but true (it is). Go through your closet now and throw out everything that does not fit, that cannot be repaired or that you have not worn in a year. Be ruthless.
Don't keep things that look bad. You care too much about yourself to go around looking like a bum who does not understand that we are judged by our appearance.
THE WAY YOU TALK: Attractive clothes and good manners will not matter one bit if you ruin your impression with bad speech habits. We have all met people who looked nice, but turned us off once they started talking. We are probably aware of some of our bad speech habits.
Those can be changed with attention and concentration until good speech patterns replace those old, tired ones. All bad habits can be broken. Examine your speech for offending words, and replace those words, especially if you say the same thing over and over or use the same phrases repeatedly. The biggest offender in speech, however, is cussing, or cursing.
Using four letter words and words that might be offending to others frequently and routinely is a handicap that reduces your chance for success in the world. One poor girl I know says F___ this and F___ that all the time, and I mean every other word! It is noticeable and distracting, and she won't ever be as successful as she could be with that bad speech pattern. Make it a point to ban those words from your vocabulary. Give yourself every chance to create a favorable impression to others and to sustain it.
A girl does not have to have a fancy haircut with highlights, the latest designer shoes and bag, bikini waxes, nails and a tan to be attractive, gorgeous and sexy. Pay attention to these three areas: your manners, your clothes, and your speech.
Become the beautiful princess you see in the mirror to all the men and women you meet and interact with. Be the best that you can be! -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com
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