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Busted: Song Lyrics That Undermine Your Self-Confidence and Destroy Your Sense of Self by Kerry L. Gray

Girls, are you paying attention to some of the song lyrics on the radio today? We're talkin' 'bout the ones that say you can't breath without a man or surely will not live if he should leave you.

These song lyrics are powerful messages. Don't let them into your brain or put them on your iPod unless you want to turn into one of those girls who depend on a guy to define her. (By the way, these are the girls that guys find the LEAST attractive.)

We're talking about current songs on the radio. We have all heard the latest one that is playing right now. Here are the lyrics -


Tell me how I'm supposed to breathe with no air

If I should die before I wake
It's 'cause you took my breath away
Losing you is like living in a world with no air

But how do you expect me
To live alone with just me
'Cause my world revolves around you
It's so hard for me to breathe

(Chorus)
Tell me how I'm supposed to breathe with no air
Can't live, can't breathe with no air
It's how I feel whenever you ain't there
It's no air, no air
Got me out here in the water so deep
Tell me how you gonna be without me
If you ain't here, I just can't breathe
It's no air, no air

Girls, these are not lyrics you want to live by and you never want a man to define your life. You can live without any man and you will survive.

Next! If you let a man make you feel and act this way then congratulations. You have just taken the first step toward ending the relationship, because no man wants to be the center of any girl's universe.

Men want partners who are whole and complete on their own; who can stand up and take it when the going gets rough and the tough get going. You deserve a man who makes you feel whole and happy and better, instead of miserable and lost if you lose him.

Drop these songs away from your life and beware the new songs that come out with the same theme. Playing them over and over again in your head can have a powerful effect on you, so just don't go there. Pick the songs that send the message that you are great, better, and stronger without him. The ones that say any man would be lucky to have you. The ones that say you don't need him for anything, because the truth is, you don't.


Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor for Don't Date Him Girl


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