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Three Types of Girlfriends Your Man May Be Keeping! by Tasha Cunningham

Have you heard of these women '" office wives, cybergirls and fitness femmes? Chances are you haven't, but you certainly should and here's why '" your man might be having an affair with one of them! So who are these women and how can you get them out of your guy's life? Let's take a look.

The Office Wife

This is the woman who is your man's constant companion at work. They go to lunch together, tackle work assignments together and even confide their deepest secrets to each other. They are committed to each other when they're at work. It's everything you'd want in a relationship minus the sex. It's a given that you can't control what your man does. If he's open to having an affair, there's not much you can do about it. But here are a few things you can do. (1) Be a regular presence at his office. Surprise him for lunch at least once a week, pick him up for happy hour after you both get off work instead of going straight home or send him a pair of your sexiest panties by messenger with an invitation to a surprise location for a evening of fun. (2) Call him regularly. Don't let the day go by without reaching out to your man at least once at work. It lets him know that you're thinking of him. (3) Ask him about his job and what he's working on. Make sure you know the cast of characters at his office.

The Cybergirl

This is a woman who your man connects with only via the Internet. They get together in cyberspace to talk, have sex, etc. They communicate mostly by IM or via webcam. If you discover that you man has a cybergirl, let him know how this makes you feel and how damaging it is to your relationship. Ask him to get rid of all of his IM and e-mail accounts that he used with her. If he resists, you'll know that this is not a relationship you want to be in. Your guy may be addicted to online sex or porn. Whatever the reason, he's not showing love and devotion to you. Instead, he's spending hours online with a cybergirl and that's a huge problem.

The Fitness Femme

This is the woman who trolls the gym for men. You can spot her right away. She's got the most revealing workout wear on, she flirts with every guy in her sight asking for help with equipment, etc. so she can strike up a conversation with a guy. The best way to rid this kind of woman from your life is to work out with your guy. This is a sign to every woman in the gym that your man is taken. Most couples don't work out together, so this can also be a special thing that the both of you do.

I once dated a guy who liked to go to spinning classes at a local gym known as a haven for men who wanted to cheat on their wives. For almost their entire relationship, the guy had a 'spinning partner' named Nancy. He never told me about his 'spinning partner'. I found out when she saw e-mails they were exchanging back and forth in which Nancy signed, 'Your Loving Spinning Partner' where he was revealing personal information about himself. I, of course, dumped him like a bad habit. Who needs that kind of drama?

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