Beauty and The Buzz
Top Five Reasons He Wants to Break-Up With You! by The Average Guy
1. YOU HURT ME! Men and women are just alike on this one. We hold on to hurt. If our significant other slights us in some way, we tend to be hurt deeply and often, don't resolve the issue. When we do that, what we're really doing is tearing our relationship's heart out. Unresolved issues can be a clear relationship killer. It can affect everything from emotional intimacy to sexual compatibility. Despite the fact that men seem like we cannot by hurt by words, we can. Despite the fact that we may try to seem unattached and tough, we really care about your opinion and value your thoughts. But, just like you, unresolved issues can lead to feelings of emotional detachment.
The advice '" talk things out right away and try to keep an honest perspective about how important the issue really is. Ask yourself, will this issue be important in 30 days? If not, do your best to let it go.
2. I'M SO BORED! Most men are looking for women who are smart, intellectually curious and can hold a conversation about a variety of subjects. Pretty and dumb just doesn't cut it. Men don't want to date or marry Ms. Pretty But Dumb, they just want to screw her.
The advice '" Don't live life in a vacuum. Get out there and develop interests, read and learn. It makes you a more attractive and well-rounded person.
3. WHY CAN'T YOU JUST LOVE ME FOR ME? Guys are guys. We need to be accepted on our own terms. We don't want to be manipulated and we don't want to be changed. We like who we are and this is who we were before we ever met you. If we were dissatisfied with who are, we would've worked on changing it already. Don't expect a man who tells you he lives for football season to want to go shopping with you on Sunday afternoons when games are on. Don't expect a guy who likes crazy wild sex to want to limit himself to the missionary position.
The advice '" let your guy be and love him as he is. If you can't do that, then you know he's not the one.
4. DO I LOOK FAT IN THIS? My sister is about the size of the fat version of Star Jones, but she's only attracted to men that are thin and in shape. You would tell her you're never going to get a man who looks like that. Ask yourself if you gain 50 lbs. you can keep a man who's thin and attractive. I know women think this is insensitive, but the fact is men are visual creatures. The entire porn industry is marketed to men because we are visually stimulated.
The advice '" if you want a great relationship with a great-looking guy, then skip that last donut and head to the gym.
5. BLING! BLING! There are men who think that their possessions entitle them to a certain kind of woman and there are women are looking for men with money. Those two losers belong together. Most men really want someone to love for who they are, just like women do. Gold-digging is one of the most detestable traits a woman can possess in the eyes of a man. We view gold-diggers are one step above a prostitute and that is usually the way they're treated.
The advice '" Find somebody you love for life regardless of their money because financial circumstances can change.
1. YOU HURT ME! Men and women are just alike on this one. We hold on to hurt. If our significant other slights us in some way, we tend to be hurt deeply and often, don't resolve the issue. When we do that, what we're really doing is tearing our relationship's heart out. Unresolved issues can be a clear relationship killer. It can affect everything from emotional intimacy to sexual compatibility. Despite the fact that men seem like we cannot by hurt by words, we can. Despite the fact that we may try to seem unattached and tough, we really care about your opinion and value your thoughts. But, just like you, unresolved issues can lead to feelings of emotional detachment.
The advice '" talk things out right away and try to keep an honest perspective about how important the issue really is. Ask yourself, will this issue be important in 30 days? If not, do your best to let it go.
2. I'M SO BORED! Most men are looking for women who are smart, intellectually curious and can hold a conversation about a variety of subjects. Pretty and dumb just doesn't cut it. Men don't want to date or marry Ms. Pretty But Dumb, they just want to screw her.
The advice '" Don't live life in a vacuum. Get out there and develop interests, read and learn. It makes you a more attractive and well-rounded person.
3. WHY CAN'T YOU JUST LOVE ME FOR ME? Guys are guys. We need to be accepted on our own terms. We don't want to be manipulated and we don't want to be changed. We like who we are and this is who we were before we ever met you. If we were dissatisfied with who are, we would've worked on changing it already. Don't expect a man who tells you he lives for football season to want to go shopping with you on Sunday afternoons when games are on. Don't expect a guy who likes crazy wild sex to want to limit himself to the missionary position.
The advice '" let your guy be and love him as he is. If you can't do that, then you know he's not the one.
4. DO I LOOK FAT IN THIS? My sister is about the size of the fat version of Star Jones, but she's only attracted to men that are thin and in shape. You would tell her you're never going to get a man who looks like that. Ask yourself if you gain 50 lbs. you can keep a man who's thin and attractive. I know women think this is insensitive, but the fact is men are visual creatures. The entire porn industry is marketed to men because we are visually stimulated.
The advice '" if you want a great relationship with a great-looking guy, then skip that last donut and head to the gym.
5. BLING! BLING! There are men who think that their possessions entitle them to a certain kind of woman and there are women are looking for men with money. Those two losers belong together. Most men really want someone to love for who they are, just like women do. Gold-digging is one of the most detestable traits a woman can possess in the eyes of a man. We view gold-diggers are one step above a prostitute and that is usually the way they're treated.
The advice '" Find somebody you love for life regardless of their money because financial circumstances can change.