Beauty and The Buzz
What's He Trying to Say? Find Out What Your Guy Really Means! by DDHG Editorial Team
Guys are so difficult to understand sometimes, right? We ladies try, but often getting over the language barrier is tough. At DDHG, we've compiled a list of common guy phrases and actions and tell you what your guy really means when he says or does these things!
1. He talks about other women incessantly. You know, you could be having a conversation with your man and all of sudden you've got to hear about a past girlfriend, his horrid ex-wife or even some celebrity that he's lusting after. This is a bad sign, ladies. He could be pining away for these women and looking at your as the girl he settled for. After all, he can only interject these women into your conversations so often before it starts wearing on your nerves! Talk to him about this and find out where his head is and what he's thinking. You don't want to be some guy's second fiddle! You can tell him that if these women are on his mind so much, perhaps he should leave you and get back together with them!
2. He flirts with other women like waitresses, flight attendants and clothing store clerks. This, ladies, is another very bad sign. Your guy may be insecure and feels the need to boost his ego by flirting with these other women who are usually in customer service roles, so they have to be nice to you anyway. Men often mistake that as a sign that the woman behind the counter likes him, wants to be with him and wants to have sex with him. Most likely, none of the above are true, but for guys, just the thought is gratification enough for them. This is immature behavior on your guy's part and if he can't curb it, you're going to have to kick him to the curb!
3. He tells you that he wants to see other people. Ladies, this one is pretty clear, wish him good luck and move on so you can find a guy who knows what he wants!
4. He needs his space. When a guy tells you this, believe him and get the heck out of there! Don't waste another minute in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want you around! Once he's had time to figure out whatever it is that requires him to have his space, he'll probably talk to you about it. But don't hold your breath, when guys say this, it's often because they're looking for a gentle way out of the relationship with you!
5. He shares all of his problems with his friends, but asks you not to share with yours. This one is simple. He doesn't want your friends to know what a cad he can be at times. But if he's letting his entourage know all about your problems at home, feel free to do the same. Once he knows that you're behaving just like he is, he'll stop and you can work on your problems together as a couple and not as a group with his beer buddies!
Guys are so difficult to understand sometimes, right? We ladies try, but often getting over the language barrier is tough. At DDHG, we've compiled a list of common guy phrases and actions and tell you what your guy really means when he says or does these things!
1. He talks about other women incessantly. You know, you could be having a conversation with your man and all of sudden you've got to hear about a past girlfriend, his horrid ex-wife or even some celebrity that he's lusting after. This is a bad sign, ladies. He could be pining away for these women and looking at your as the girl he settled for. After all, he can only interject these women into your conversations so often before it starts wearing on your nerves! Talk to him about this and find out where his head is and what he's thinking. You don't want to be some guy's second fiddle! You can tell him that if these women are on his mind so much, perhaps he should leave you and get back together with them!
2. He flirts with other women like waitresses, flight attendants and clothing store clerks. This, ladies, is another very bad sign. Your guy may be insecure and feels the need to boost his ego by flirting with these other women who are usually in customer service roles, so they have to be nice to you anyway. Men often mistake that as a sign that the woman behind the counter likes him, wants to be with him and wants to have sex with him. Most likely, none of the above are true, but for guys, just the thought is gratification enough for them. This is immature behavior on your guy's part and if he can't curb it, you're going to have to kick him to the curb!
3. He tells you that he wants to see other people. Ladies, this one is pretty clear, wish him good luck and move on so you can find a guy who knows what he wants!
4. He needs his space. When a guy tells you this, believe him and get the heck out of there! Don't waste another minute in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want you around! Once he's had time to figure out whatever it is that requires him to have his space, he'll probably talk to you about it. But don't hold your breath, when guys say this, it's often because they're looking for a gentle way out of the relationship with you!
5. He shares all of his problems with his friends, but asks you not to share with yours. This one is simple. He doesn't want your friends to know what a cad he can be at times. But if he's letting his entourage know all about your problems at home, feel free to do the same. Once he knows that you're behaving just like he is, he'll stop and you can work on your problems together as a couple and not as a group with his beer buddies!
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