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Why You Should Never Fear Being Without a Man by Kerry L. Gray

Girls, what are two things you should never fear? They are a man leaving and being alone. The real reason we fear these things is that we are all afraid of change, afraid of the unknown. We grow up thinking we need a man to complete us when we really don't. We think we cannot stand on our own two feet when we really can.

Change is an inevitable part of life. The only thing constant about life is that it changes, so rework your thinking to embrace change. When your life grows stale or your romance grows old, open yourself to the possibility that this love will end and you will be alone, ready for something bigger and better. When you fear losing a man you become clingy and needy in subconscious ways that come out in your relationship.

Your man senses this and pulls away and you act even more needy and clingy and he pulls away even more. The opposite is also true. When you are not afraid to lose a man, he senses that you do not need him and you become more attractive. Your lack of neediness and fear pulls him in.

Throw caution to the wind and look forward to the times when you are without a man and alone. It is at those times that you are open to the biggest and best possibilities that can happen to you. Know that there is always a fabulous new man and a wonderful exciting life right around the corner. Embrace change, and never fear being alone or without a man.



 
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