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Be His Dream Girl - 5 Ways to Have Your Guy Hooked on You by Kerry Gray
How can you be his dream girl? That special girl he thinks about and longs to be with?
The one and only girl who makes him seriously think about making your casual romance permanent? We tell you how.
His dream girl never talks about herself too much on their early dates. His job is to
blow your cover, so your job is to keep a lid on it. Your allure to a man is your mysterious
nature, so never reveal yourself too soon. Keep him wondering and wanting to know more.
His dream girl never jumps in too fast or sleeps with him too soon. A true prize is hard
to catch. Men do not equate easy with valuable. Men also believe that if they do not have to work hard to get you then other men have had it easy with you, too. Let things progress at a steady pace. You can keep his eye on the prize without handing it over too early.
His dream girl has realistic expectations and never loses her identity. She does not believe
Prince Charming is coming to sweep her off her feet and knows that men are not perfect. She likes them as they are and gives them her attention only when they come after her.
She does not 'dis them if they don't
because she knows there are many others out there. Even after he comes along she takes care of herself first. She has a life and she does not let it slip by while wasting her time chasing men. She is busy busy busy. When a dream guy appears she fits him into her plans but she does not lose her plan completely in a new man. He chases the hot, sexy, independent girl and she stays that way even after he catches her.
His dream girl is cool, calm, confident and collected. She does not explode and turn into a raving lunatic under any circumstances. She weighs the good with the bad carefully and then makes her choice based on what suits her needs and desires first. She never says the final four words that every man dreads. "We have to talk" and "where is this going" are never even thoughts that cross her mind. When he brings up the talk, and he will, she will think then about whether he fits into her life or not, not whether she fits into his. She knows not to bring up the words wedding, marriage, love and children.
Those words are his to bring up first, so bringing up those subjects is up to him. She knows not to give her power away by being too needy, desperate, or dependent on his feelings about her to let him determine her own future.
His dream girl always builds him up in front of others. She never embarrasses him or humiliates him in front of friends or family. She would never criticize him in front of co-workers. She is proud of him and supportive of him in every way and she shows it with a respectful, loving and kind manner when with him around others.
His dream girl says yes to sex after the relationship has progressed to that point. Nothing is more disappointing to a man than a woman who is very sexual in the beginning and then freezes or uses sexuality against him once he is in the relationship. This kind of move will spell doom for a happy exciting future together.
Remember that once you are a couple, your sex life is his sex life, so take care of it as the precious gift it is. It is the bottom line on how you connect and communicate and it is very important to him. Remember that, and move it up on the priority list once you are in a committed relationship.
These marvelous moves will instantly make you his dream girl come true. Take care of him, and he will take care of you.
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
Have a love question or relationship problem?
Get a fast, free and personal answer by writing Kerry, the Love Doctor, at KerryLGray@gmail.com
How can you be his dream girl? That special girl he thinks about and longs to be with?
The one and only girl who makes him seriously think about making your casual romance permanent? We tell you how.
His dream girl never talks about herself too much on their early dates. His job is to
blow your cover, so your job is to keep a lid on it. Your allure to a man is your mysterious
nature, so never reveal yourself too soon. Keep him wondering and wanting to know more.
His dream girl never jumps in too fast or sleeps with him too soon. A true prize is hard
to catch. Men do not equate easy with valuable. Men also believe that if they do not have to work hard to get you then other men have had it easy with you, too. Let things progress at a steady pace. You can keep his eye on the prize without handing it over too early.
His dream girl has realistic expectations and never loses her identity. She does not believe
Prince Charming is coming to sweep her off her feet and knows that men are not perfect. She likes them as they are and gives them her attention only when they come after her.
She does not 'dis them if they don't
because she knows there are many others out there. Even after he comes along she takes care of herself first. She has a life and she does not let it slip by while wasting her time chasing men. She is busy busy busy. When a dream guy appears she fits him into her plans but she does not lose her plan completely in a new man. He chases the hot, sexy, independent girl and she stays that way even after he catches her.
His dream girl is cool, calm, confident and collected. She does not explode and turn into a raving lunatic under any circumstances. She weighs the good with the bad carefully and then makes her choice based on what suits her needs and desires first. She never says the final four words that every man dreads. "We have to talk" and "where is this going" are never even thoughts that cross her mind. When he brings up the talk, and he will, she will think then about whether he fits into her life or not, not whether she fits into his. She knows not to bring up the words wedding, marriage, love and children.
Those words are his to bring up first, so bringing up those subjects is up to him. She knows not to give her power away by being too needy, desperate, or dependent on his feelings about her to let him determine her own future.
His dream girl always builds him up in front of others. She never embarrasses him or humiliates him in front of friends or family. She would never criticize him in front of co-workers. She is proud of him and supportive of him in every way and she shows it with a respectful, loving and kind manner when with him around others.
His dream girl says yes to sex after the relationship has progressed to that point. Nothing is more disappointing to a man than a woman who is very sexual in the beginning and then freezes or uses sexuality against him once he is in the relationship. This kind of move will spell doom for a happy exciting future together.
Remember that once you are a couple, your sex life is his sex life, so take care of it as the precious gift it is. It is the bottom line on how you connect and communicate and it is very important to him. Remember that, and move it up on the priority list once you are in a committed relationship.
These marvelous moves will instantly make you his dream girl come true. Take care of him, and he will take care of you.
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
Have a love question or relationship problem?
Get a fast, free and personal answer by writing Kerry, the Love Doctor, at KerryLGray@gmail.com
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