Empower Yourself
How to Stroke Your Guy's Ego Like a Pro by Kerry Gray
Girls,
You're dating an awesome guy, and you want to strengthen your connection. How do you do it? You can make his feelings stronger for you by stroking his ego. Men have big egos, and they need to be handled with kid gloves.
How do you stroke your man's ego like a pro? You can give him lots of strokes by giving him a feeling of power in your relationship. Men need to feel big and strong and powerful to fall in love with you. They want to be able to provide strength and security for the little woman in their life. Make him feel like a hero on a regular basis.
You can do this by letting him be the man around the house. Let him do the heavy lifting, even if you can do it yourself. Back off when it comes to household projects. Ask him to hang the picture, fix the latch and take out the trash, then thank him for what he does. Don't get into a tit for tat conversation about how much you do compared to him. It will make his feelings for you lessen when you treat him like a little boy who doesn't do his chores. Ask him to do something just once, and if he doesn't do it, then move on.
Do it yourself or pay to have it done without saying a word. He will get the message then and step up to the place and do it the next time. Do not nag and whine.
Another way to give him a feeling of power is to let him protect you and treat you like a lady. From the beginning, let him open the car door, pull out your chair at restaurants and order for you.
Good dating habits will set a life-long precedent and he will get the message that he needs to treat you right. Let him make you feel safe and secure. Ask him to see you to the door so you get in safely, and then tell him how safe he makes you feel. He needs to hear that he is providing those feelings for you.
If you hear a noise in the middle of the night, ask him to investigate. Let him be protective of you. These things will give him a feeling of power and stroke his ego, strengthening your connection.
The men in our lives really are big and strong and powerful. Make sure he knows that you appreciate those qualities, and he will begin to see you as a true partner and possible lifetime lover, not just a casual girlfriend. -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com
Girls,
You're dating an awesome guy, and you want to strengthen your connection. How do you do it? You can make his feelings stronger for you by stroking his ego. Men have big egos, and they need to be handled with kid gloves.
How do you stroke your man's ego like a pro? You can give him lots of strokes by giving him a feeling of power in your relationship. Men need to feel big and strong and powerful to fall in love with you. They want to be able to provide strength and security for the little woman in their life. Make him feel like a hero on a regular basis.
You can do this by letting him be the man around the house. Let him do the heavy lifting, even if you can do it yourself. Back off when it comes to household projects. Ask him to hang the picture, fix the latch and take out the trash, then thank him for what he does. Don't get into a tit for tat conversation about how much you do compared to him. It will make his feelings for you lessen when you treat him like a little boy who doesn't do his chores. Ask him to do something just once, and if he doesn't do it, then move on.
Do it yourself or pay to have it done without saying a word. He will get the message then and step up to the place and do it the next time. Do not nag and whine.
Another way to give him a feeling of power is to let him protect you and treat you like a lady. From the beginning, let him open the car door, pull out your chair at restaurants and order for you.
Good dating habits will set a life-long precedent and he will get the message that he needs to treat you right. Let him make you feel safe and secure. Ask him to see you to the door so you get in safely, and then tell him how safe he makes you feel. He needs to hear that he is providing those feelings for you.
If you hear a noise in the middle of the night, ask him to investigate. Let him be protective of you. These things will give him a feeling of power and stroke his ego, strengthening your connection.
The men in our lives really are big and strong and powerful. Make sure he knows that you appreciate those qualities, and he will begin to see you as a true partner and possible lifetime lover, not just a casual girlfriend. -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com
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