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Top 5 Lies That Men Tell Women! by Tasha Cunningham
How can you tell if your man is lying? It's not easy. There a little white lies that often get overlooked. Truthfully, the answer is you really can't, at least not right off the bat. When your man looks you in the eye and tells you something, most women tend to believe it. But men lie. And spotting their lies is often quite difficult. Here are 5 lies that men tell women all the time and what's really going on behind the untruth he's just uttered!
1. I Don't Think About Other Women - Yeah, right! Ladies, now you all know that you've thought about your hunky ex-boyfriend or your hot, married co-worker from time to time. The difference is for most women, thinking about other men is a passing fancy, a split-second thought that goes out of our brains just as fast as it came in. For guys, it's a different story. Men think about sex and other women all the time. According to AskMen.com, whether they are single, engaged or married, men think about sex every 5 seconds and not always with their partners. And most men, when they look at a woman automatically think about what she would be like in bed. Sad, but true, ladies!
So the point is, don't believe your man when he tells you he doesn't think about other women. He does and he does it often. The true test comes if or when he acts on pursuing any of the women he's thinking about. Just like you may think about your gorgeous idiot of an boyfriend, but you would never do anything more than have a thought or two bounce around your head.
2. I Don't Fantasize About Other Women During Sex. He probably does, and it isn't normal. If your man is having sex with you, but thinking about someone else, there's something fundamentally wrong in your relationship. You're giving your mind and body to a man and instead of focusing on you, he's dreaming about some other woman he had sex with. Awful! This lie is very hard to detect, because you can't know what in his head when you're having sex, but here are few things that might help you determine if this is happening. If he doesn't look at you during sex or make eye contact with you at all, that's a problem. If he closes his eyes most of the time that you're having sex, that's definitely a problem. He's probably in full fantasy mode then! If he does not kiss you during sex, he's distancing himself and foregoing intimacy with you for the woman he's thinking about in his head. If this is happening to you, talk to your guy about it, if things don't change after that, they probably never will.
3. I'm sorry. Sometimes a guy may tell you he's sorry, just to avoid further argument. In his mind, however, he's not sorry because he doesn't think he's done anything wrong. Most women can tell a sincere apology from a fake one, though.
4. I Don't Even Like Strip Clubs. Oh yeah? What guy doesn't like the site of naked women slithering up and down a pole? There may be a few, but not many. This is just an outright lie that men use, but most of them don't know that almost no woman is going to believe them! ;-)
5. I Love Shopping With You. Another outright lie that men may tell in the initial phases of dating. No man likes going through rack after rack of women's clothes, waiting until you try each piece you like on in the fitting room and giving his color commentary on what works or doesn't work with each outfit. He may shop with you early on, but trust us, once he seals the deal, the shopping sprees will end quickly. -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com
How can you tell if your man is lying? It's not easy. There a little white lies that often get overlooked. Truthfully, the answer is you really can't, at least not right off the bat. When your man looks you in the eye and tells you something, most women tend to believe it. But men lie. And spotting their lies is often quite difficult. Here are 5 lies that men tell women all the time and what's really going on behind the untruth he's just uttered!
1. I Don't Think About Other Women - Yeah, right! Ladies, now you all know that you've thought about your hunky ex-boyfriend or your hot, married co-worker from time to time. The difference is for most women, thinking about other men is a passing fancy, a split-second thought that goes out of our brains just as fast as it came in. For guys, it's a different story. Men think about sex and other women all the time. According to AskMen.com, whether they are single, engaged or married, men think about sex every 5 seconds and not always with their partners. And most men, when they look at a woman automatically think about what she would be like in bed. Sad, but true, ladies!
So the point is, don't believe your man when he tells you he doesn't think about other women. He does and he does it often. The true test comes if or when he acts on pursuing any of the women he's thinking about. Just like you may think about your gorgeous idiot of an boyfriend, but you would never do anything more than have a thought or two bounce around your head.
2. I Don't Fantasize About Other Women During Sex. He probably does, and it isn't normal. If your man is having sex with you, but thinking about someone else, there's something fundamentally wrong in your relationship. You're giving your mind and body to a man and instead of focusing on you, he's dreaming about some other woman he had sex with. Awful! This lie is very hard to detect, because you can't know what in his head when you're having sex, but here are few things that might help you determine if this is happening. If he doesn't look at you during sex or make eye contact with you at all, that's a problem. If he closes his eyes most of the time that you're having sex, that's definitely a problem. He's probably in full fantasy mode then! If he does not kiss you during sex, he's distancing himself and foregoing intimacy with you for the woman he's thinking about in his head. If this is happening to you, talk to your guy about it, if things don't change after that, they probably never will.
3. I'm sorry. Sometimes a guy may tell you he's sorry, just to avoid further argument. In his mind, however, he's not sorry because he doesn't think he's done anything wrong. Most women can tell a sincere apology from a fake one, though.
4. I Don't Even Like Strip Clubs. Oh yeah? What guy doesn't like the site of naked women slithering up and down a pole? There may be a few, but not many. This is just an outright lie that men use, but most of them don't know that almost no woman is going to believe them! ;-)
5. I Love Shopping With You. Another outright lie that men may tell in the initial phases of dating. No man likes going through rack after rack of women's clothes, waiting until you try each piece you like on in the fitting room and giving his color commentary on what works or doesn't work with each outfit. He may shop with you early on, but trust us, once he seals the deal, the shopping sprees will end quickly. -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com
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