Prizes and Giveaways
Help! He Eyes Other Women When He's With Me! by DDHG Editorial Team
Does your man have a perpetual wandering eye? Is there anything you can do about it? Most research suggests that if you man is looking at other women when he's with you, he's not happy and hence, you should probably get out of that relationship before things get worse. But there's an entire school of thought dedicated to the old cliche - boys will be boys. So what's a girl to do when her man's eye wanders? Here are a few suggestions.
1. Tell him that it's a problem. Tell him how uncomfortable you feel when he oogles other women in your presence. Tell him you feel demeaned and disrespected. He may just deny it, but of course, you've got eyes and you can see him doing it! Most men, if they value their relationship, will curtain their behavior. If not, pack your bags and get out because it's not going to get any better.
2. Give him a dose of his own medicine. The next time you're with him and you see an attractive guy, make sure to let him see you oogling the guy. Hopefully, he'll feel as horrible as you feel when he does it to you and he'll stop.
3. Don't just live with it. This is detrimental to your relationship. If your man can't stay focused on you when you're out, then why are you still with him? Why do you need the headache? Your man is acting like a two-year child who can't sit still or stay focused for more than two minutes. You don't need this. There are plenty of men out there who, when they've fallen in love, don't have eyes for anyone else except their mates. Get out there and find yourself one!
Does your man have a perpetual wandering eye? Is there anything you can do about it? Most research suggests that if you man is looking at other women when he's with you, he's not happy and hence, you should probably get out of that relationship before things get worse. But there's an entire school of thought dedicated to the old cliche - boys will be boys. So what's a girl to do when her man's eye wanders? Here are a few suggestions.
1. Tell him that it's a problem. Tell him how uncomfortable you feel when he oogles other women in your presence. Tell him you feel demeaned and disrespected. He may just deny it, but of course, you've got eyes and you can see him doing it! Most men, if they value their relationship, will curtain their behavior. If not, pack your bags and get out because it's not going to get any better.
2. Give him a dose of his own medicine. The next time you're with him and you see an attractive guy, make sure to let him see you oogling the guy. Hopefully, he'll feel as horrible as you feel when he does it to you and he'll stop.
3. Don't just live with it. This is detrimental to your relationship. If your man can't stay focused on you when you're out, then why are you still with him? Why do you need the headache? Your man is acting like a two-year child who can't sit still or stay focused for more than two minutes. You don't need this. There are plenty of men out there who, when they've fallen in love, don't have eyes for anyone else except their mates. Get out there and find yourself one!