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The List Every Woman Needs to Make Right Now! by The Average Guy
Within three dates, guys generally know whether we like someone or whether we intend to see them again. The challenge for you women is to figure out whether you like us. I recently advised a friend of mine on the same subject. He is an international businessman and travels the world for his company. He says he wants to be married, but can't find the right person.
I explained that he is wasting his time and money on the wrong people who don't mean anything to him. Furthermore, he was going to be 'occupied' when the right woman came along. He asked me what to do.
I told him that he should only date women he could see a future with. He was dating a woman that had a child and had just finished dating a professional basketball player. This scared my friend as he believed that she was a 'pro '˜ho' or a woman that had jock itch'"an itch that could only be scratched by a pro athlete. So, I asked him whether he had slept with her. He said yes because she was hot. I told him that he had given her the message that she was important to him because he slept with her.
Of course this was confusing to him. He felt like sleeping with her until he found something better. I explained to him that he was creating a grand mess. He needed to sleep with one woman at a time and be faithful to her. I further explained to him that he should only date women who he could see being his wife.
This is the challenge for women. You should only date people that you could see yourself being with on a long term basis. If you can only see yourself having sex and not Thanksgiving dinner, then he is the wrong guy for you. Write a list of the attributes you want in a man. Be honest.
If you want a guy that's very attractive, put it down on the list. This is your list. This list is not for mom or your minister. It is a list of things you want; not a list of things that will make other people happy.
Now, if guys approach you who are meeting 75% of the things on your list, date them. Otherwise, you are wasting your time. Why date a guy that doesn't have what you are looking for? Because you're bored? Read a book. The problem is that when you are spending your time with the guy that you don't want, the guy that you do want is slipping through your fingers. Suppose you see 'the guy' at the grocery store, but you're with the man you don't want? You will not get him and if you approach him anyway, he will think less of you.
You deserve what you want. Write it down and be realistic. Don't think that you are going to get Tom Cruise if you look like Rosie O'Donnell. That could be what you want, but not what you will get. A good rule of thumb is to question whether you could be on your own list. For example, if I make a list that says I want a professional woman (lawyer, doctor), but I'm a dog groomer, I'm probably not going to get that. Judge yourself by your list to see if it's realistic.
Within three dates, guys generally know whether we like someone or whether we intend to see them again. The challenge for you women is to figure out whether you like us. I recently advised a friend of mine on the same subject. He is an international businessman and travels the world for his company. He says he wants to be married, but can't find the right person.
I explained that he is wasting his time and money on the wrong people who don't mean anything to him. Furthermore, he was going to be 'occupied' when the right woman came along. He asked me what to do.
I told him that he should only date women he could see a future with. He was dating a woman that had a child and had just finished dating a professional basketball player. This scared my friend as he believed that she was a 'pro '˜ho' or a woman that had jock itch'"an itch that could only be scratched by a pro athlete. So, I asked him whether he had slept with her. He said yes because she was hot. I told him that he had given her the message that she was important to him because he slept with her.
Of course this was confusing to him. He felt like sleeping with her until he found something better. I explained to him that he was creating a grand mess. He needed to sleep with one woman at a time and be faithful to her. I further explained to him that he should only date women who he could see being his wife.
This is the challenge for women. You should only date people that you could see yourself being with on a long term basis. If you can only see yourself having sex and not Thanksgiving dinner, then he is the wrong guy for you. Write a list of the attributes you want in a man. Be honest.
If you want a guy that's very attractive, put it down on the list. This is your list. This list is not for mom or your minister. It is a list of things you want; not a list of things that will make other people happy.
Now, if guys approach you who are meeting 75% of the things on your list, date them. Otherwise, you are wasting your time. Why date a guy that doesn't have what you are looking for? Because you're bored? Read a book. The problem is that when you are spending your time with the guy that you don't want, the guy that you do want is slipping through your fingers. Suppose you see 'the guy' at the grocery store, but you're with the man you don't want? You will not get him and if you approach him anyway, he will think less of you.
You deserve what you want. Write it down and be realistic. Don't think that you are going to get Tom Cruise if you look like Rosie O'Donnell. That could be what you want, but not what you will get. A good rule of thumb is to question whether you could be on your own list. For example, if I make a list that says I want a professional woman (lawyer, doctor), but I'm a dog groomer, I'm probably not going to get that. Judge yourself by your list to see if it's realistic.
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