Should Married Men Who Try to Have Affairs Be Exposed?
Should married men who have sexual affairs be exposed? Recently, a prominent attorney in a large city propositioned a woman online on MySpace, wanting to meet immediately for lunch and a long term secret affair if they had a connection. He confessed he had one affair in his past, and thought it was wonderful. He also said there was no way he could tell him wife, because she just would not understand and would not accept his need for more varied sex.
What he did NOT know is that the woman he propositioned is a prominent journalist for the local newspaper. She also writes stories for other magazines and websites. Should she write an undercover story about this married with children lawyer seeking sex in their local paper? If she did, his wife would certainly find out, because the many details the journalist knows about his life would identify him. What do you think?
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20 October, 2009 - 03:19
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20 October, 2009 - 03:18
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21 September, 2009 - 12:57
Quinn73
I think she should write the story yes, however, try to limit the details, but put just enough to make him SWEAT it!
22 August, 2009 - 23:09
chica2009
I don't think she should write the story, but if she wants to write the story, she should do so. An affair involves taking the risk that the spouse will find out. He made a decision to take that risk, and he shouldn't have assumed that he could trust or control the behavior of any women that he propositioned.
13 August, 2009 - 11:51
wirly
yes I think so
21 July, 2009 - 10:12
truth-hurts
The man is an idiot...but unfortunately as much as i want to say "YES" i have to say "No" becasue of all parties involved, his wife and his children. I'm thinking about how the wife would be publicly humiliated, and distraught, and there life beign ecposed to the public. Those are private matters. If the journalist wants to ecpose him she could send the myspace messages to his wife, and have her deal with it from there, but exposing it publicly i disagree for the sake of his wife and children....
03 July, 2009 - 12:26
scornedbyhim72
Now hold up and really think about this. Look at how many people would be hurt by this situation. Yes, the guy but really think about his family and children. I've been on both sides of the fence and its not pretty at all. No one wins especially the children. Think of what they'll have to go through at school or in their community if they identify this man. Its humiliating. Best thing for this journalist to do is to tell him what he's doing is wrong and seek professional help. Let the natural consequences happen. Sooner or later he will be caught or exposed but don't be the one to contribute to it. Its a huge weight to carry and the guilt will not do you any good. Hey - I've been there and I've wanted to tell the whole world how this married man did me wrong. Just can't bring myself to do it. Yes, the anger is there and at the same time I feel sorry for him and his family. I truly believe the truth will prevail but not by my doing. I won't be a part of it.
01 July, 2009 - 15:25
Toodles11
Whatever you do in life brings repercussions. If a man is cheating on his wife, karma will find a way to make the score even. It's just the way this world works. Those who air another's dirty laundry are no better than those who commit the sin in the first place.
16 June, 2009 - 19:45
youknowwho249
YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! and furthermore YES!
15 June, 2009 - 23:20
sweetone4you38
hell yea ,,, my husband has cheated and i looked at bills on line and called them all ,,, steven bergsten is his name he is still cheating spreading his herpies its s womans right to know ,, for her health and her kids
