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Moving On?
Q. I am losing my mind! I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 2 years ago. He lied to me and I felt really hurt at that time we had a lot of other issues as well and it was better to move on...well I haven't moved on. I moved on with my life but my heart is still back with him. I can't get over him no matter what I do. I think about him all the time. I want to be with him but I am afraid of hurting him again or him hurting me.
I felt like my life was empty and my heart was full when we were together and not my life is full but my heart is broken and empty. There are a lot of things that we needed to work on and many reasons why we shouldn't be together but I cant get my heart to move on...You can't help who you fall in love with but what happens when your head says its stupid but your heart is holding on to him for dear life...I NEED ADVICE!
A. Hey girl! Yes, you can definitely move on from this relationship. It's been 2 years and you've got to put it past you in order to get on with your life and find the guy that really is right for you. From what you've written here, you're in love with a liar, someone who broke your heart with his lies. Why would you want to go back to that? Do you want to try it and see if you get lied to again? Of course not! That would be a huge waste of time!
Instead, do this. Write down all of the things that went wrong in the relationship. Then, next to that list jot down the things that worked. Now look at your list. Do you see that the list of what was bad about the relationship far outweighs the list of things that worked. This is evidence right before your eyes that you were not in a balanced relationship. You deserve to have a guy in your life who won't lie to you or otherwise hurt you. You're not going to find him if you're busy fretting over a bad relationship that ended over 2 years ago.
And please, please go buy this fabulous book - Dump That Chump! From Doormat to Diva in Only Nine Steps--a Guide to Getting Over Mr. Wrong by Debra Mandel. It will help you move on quickly and easily!
Q. I am losing my mind! I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 2 years ago. He lied to me and I felt really hurt at that time we had a lot of other issues as well and it was better to move on...well I haven't moved on. I moved on with my life but my heart is still back with him. I can't get over him no matter what I do. I think about him all the time. I want to be with him but I am afraid of hurting him again or him hurting me.
I felt like my life was empty and my heart was full when we were together and not my life is full but my heart is broken and empty. There are a lot of things that we needed to work on and many reasons why we shouldn't be together but I cant get my heart to move on...You can't help who you fall in love with but what happens when your head says its stupid but your heart is holding on to him for dear life...I NEED ADVICE!
A. Hey girl! Yes, you can definitely move on from this relationship. It's been 2 years and you've got to put it past you in order to get on with your life and find the guy that really is right for you. From what you've written here, you're in love with a liar, someone who broke your heart with his lies. Why would you want to go back to that? Do you want to try it and see if you get lied to again? Of course not! That would be a huge waste of time!
Instead, do this. Write down all of the things that went wrong in the relationship. Then, next to that list jot down the things that worked. Now look at your list. Do you see that the list of what was bad about the relationship far outweighs the list of things that worked. This is evidence right before your eyes that you were not in a balanced relationship. You deserve to have a guy in your life who won't lie to you or otherwise hurt you. You're not going to find him if you're busy fretting over a bad relationship that ended over 2 years ago.
And please, please go buy this fabulous book - Dump That Chump! From Doormat to Diva in Only Nine Steps--a Guide to Getting Over Mr. Wrong by Debra Mandel. It will help you move on quickly and easily!