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shellyme4106
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 Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject: a question about a mans mind |
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| My boyfriend says I have got to his heart and now I need to get to his mind. He also said that I am getting there though. What does this mean? How do you get to a mans mind? |
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Lilah1
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| Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:31 pm Post subject: |
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I doubt a man can answer, any man, your boyfriend is an individual, so you should look at him as an individual.
But one could assume he may mean intellectual stimualation ?
Talk about things of interest that stimulate the mind ? |
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sjmoore33
Joined: 02 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 6:37 pm Post subject: Maybe he means... |
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That you aren't on his mind all the time.. like Maybe he wants you to have him "addicted" where you are always on his mind? Who knows?  |
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courtneyiscool
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| Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 10:05 pm Post subject: I think the woman or man who can tell us what's really going |
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on in a guy's mind, even if it's something women don't want to hear, would be a very wealthy person! I wish I knew what guys are really thinking, but it seems with every guy I date, I get more and more confused by guys who say one thing and do another!  |
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DrRevJenine
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| Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 11:21 pm Post subject: Heart and Mind?? |
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Geeze!!! Does someone REALLY think they are educated in the ways of how humans work if they "divide" the heart from the mind, or any other part of a person's being with another part??
"Relationship" has its own "flow" and after the attraction stage, it is about getting to know one another in every day life. Dating is one way, and spending a lot of time talking and interacting is another part of it. I cant say that anyone can divide their heart from their mind and expect someone to adhere to that statement.
I feel it is a way of Postponing a feeling of committment..like" you have to prove yourself to me", kind of thing. |
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coolchick332
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| Posted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree, it sounds like he's not on the same level as commitment as you are, but possibly will soon be |
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