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ryan85
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 Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 7:40 am Post subject: are MORE women unable to seperate SEX & LOVE ? |
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compared to men?
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courtneyiscool
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| Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 3:59 am Post subject: I think some women really don't know how to separate the two |
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because it's hard since sex is a part of love, if you ever find love with a guy. I've confused it a bunch of times because I thought if I slept with a guy, it meant that we were serious.
After a ton of bad break ups, I finally figured out that sex to men is something totally different sometimes than it is for women. Also, there's tons of research that says that men can easily separate sex and love, something that's harder for women to do.
Just my two cents! |
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BrokenWings73
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| Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 2:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Why should they be seperate? |
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__penchant
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| Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 9:14 pm Post subject: |
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| not going to make a gender generalization here, but i think that if someone is desperately looking for another person's love, they will be more likely to mistake or imagine things to be signs of love - including casual sex.. |
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raven_lady
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In general I believe that to be the case owing back to evolutionary times when men were wired to spread their seed far and wide whereas women needed the protection and strength of a man during those dangerous times. Also, it's been shown that a hormone oxytocin that is released during sex which causes women to feel emotions of love, attachment, bonding with their partner. Of course there are women and those who know women who will say that they don't get attached at all and I don't doubt that - there are exceptions to every 'rule' which could be due to their experiences and/or atypical physiology.
But, many times, and even with myself, women are fooling and lying and deceiving themselves that they are just like a man. They may act like a man but they're unable to be completely like a man - that it's just sex and nothing more, they get upset when the guy wants nothing more to do with them, doesn't call, doesn't see them again, ignores them, they feel jealous and possessive. Or sometimes the opposite happens - they get callous and hardened to sheild themselves from those emotions. Thus, I think, there are a very small minority of women who can have sex and just leave it at that without being affected in any way if it never amounts to anything more. |
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courtneyiscool
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| Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 4:52 pm Post subject: Hey Raven Lady! I'm going to have to agree with everything |
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| you said here. Women can't act like men. It's harder for us to detach from a romantic relationship like men do and just make it all about the sex. I don't know why men can do this easier than women can, but they just can. |
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AskAverageGuy
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| Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 11:10 pm Post subject: Women can think like men and they're a lot better at it |
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than guys are! That's because women are much smarter than men. I'm just kidding! The truth is men just aren't as attached to the emotional aspects of sex like women are. Men don't romanticize it like women do. To us, sex isn't something that happens in a Harlequin novel. It's a source of temporary fun and pleasure.
But it's clear that men and women think very differently on this topic! |
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