BABY DRAMA!!!!!!!!!!!PLEASE HELP ME...IM FREAKING OUT.

[forgettable]

THERE WAS THIS GUY I MET OVER 6 MONTHS AGO AND THE THING I'VE SHOULD OF NOTICED ABOUT THIS GUY WAS THAT HE WAS A BIG COMMITMENTPROBIC BECAUSE HE IS 31 YEARS OLD AND HE TOLD ME THAT HE NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND SO THAT MEANS ALL THE GIRLS HE WAS DATING, HE DIDN'T CONSIDER NONE OF THEM AS A GIRLFRIEND. WHEN HE TOLD ME THAT HE WANTED TO BE FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS AND THAT HE WANTED TO CONTINUE TO SEE EACHOTHER TILL ONE OF US FOUND THE "ONE. WHEN THIS GUY HAD SAID THAT, I SHOULD OF LEFTED HIM ALONE BUT I DIDNT AND I KEPT SEEING HIM ANYWAY AND THEN WHEN I STARTED TO FEEL SOMETHING FOR THIS GUY THEN HE DIDN'T WANT TO SEE ME ANYMORE. SO THEN A MONTH LATER, I HAD FOUND OUT THAT I WAS PREGNANT AND THEN HE WAS DEVASTATED BUT THEN HE STARTED TO MISS ME AND WANTED TO SEE ME AGAIN SO IT STARTED BEING MIXED FEELINGS BECAUSE HE WANTED TO BE INTIMATE AGAIN BUT HE STARTED TO THINK ABOUT THE BABY. ANYWAYS, HE WANTED TO STILL KEEP THE BABY LATER ON BUT AT FIRST HE DIDN'T BUT LATER HE ACCEPTED IT AND WAS WILLING TO HELP BUT I HAD RECENTLY TOLD HIM THAT I STILL HAD FEELINGS FOR HIM AND THEN HE REALLY BLEW ME OFF TELLING ME THAT HE LIKED ME AT ONE TIME AND THAT IM A NICE PERSON BUT HE DIDN'T CONNECT WITH ME AND THAT WE HAD NOTHING IN COMMON. NOW HOW CAN U NOT HAVE ANY CONNECTION WITH SOMEONE AND U USE TO BE ALL OVER ME WHERE I COULDNT GET HIM OFF OF ME. THAT REALLY HURT AND NOW HE ADMIT IT THAT HE IS SEEING SOMEONE BUT HE WANT ME TO STILL KEEP HIM CONTACT WITH HIM BECAUSE HE WANTS TO BE IN THE BABY'S LIFE BECAUSE IT IS TWINS THAT I AM HAVING. THIS GUY USED ME AND THEN PULLED AWAY BECAUSE I GOT TOO CLOSE SO HOW CAN I BE ABLE TO FACE HIM WITH THS BABIES.
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME? HOW CAN I FACE HIM AFTER KNOWING THAT HE DOESNT LIKE ME ANYMORE. IT TEARS ME UP INSIDE BECAUSE I KNOW WE HAVING A BABY TOGETHER BUT IT IS GOING TO TEAR ME TOO PIECES WHEN HE COMES OVER TO SEE HIS SONS AND KNOWING THAT HE USED ME AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME LIKE THAT. WHAT DO I DO BECAUSE I CANT FACE HIM AND I CANT TALK TO HIM ON THE PHONE BECAUSE IT IS TOO HARD SO I HAVE TO TEXT TO TELL HIM ABOUT THE BABIES. MY JOB IS MOVING ME OUT OF STATE FOR 3 YEARS AND SO SHOULD I JUST MOVE THERE WITHOUT HIM SEEING THE BABIES ANYMORE OR WHAT SHOULD I DO BECAUSE HE DID SAY HE WANTS TO HELP BUT I FIGURE IF I DO THIS THEN I COULD FORGET ABOUT HIM AND JUST BE THE SINGLE PARENT AND PRETEND DADDY DOESNT EXIST. WHAT DO I DO?

[gingersnapd]

If your job is moving you out of state, this is the perfect opportunity to make a new life for yourself and your babies. If the baby daddy wants to help you, he can help you financially, but you don't owe him anything more than that. You have feelings for him, but he doesn't feel the same way about you, so seeing him is just going to be painful for you. You've got a chance to move on, so take it! And, please, sweetie...in the future, when a guy tells you he just wants to be FWB, believe him, and if you still want to go for it, USE BIRTH CONTROL. It makes me incredibly sad to see a young woman get pregnant, thinking that somehow this will change the way the guy feels about her. He was upfront with you from the beginning, and you chose to ignore that. We all make bad choices, but we can learn from them. You will have your babies as a reminder, and now you need to take care of them and yourself. Stay strong.