Being in Love #2

[double22dose]

As a followup, I called off the relationship. His reply was that ""I came into his life when he didn't want to be close to anyone."" So why do they be the absolute best boyfriend ever when they already know this? I'm feeling very empty and alone. I almost feel like trying to get him back!

[toots2375]

YO PSYCHO!!! CHILL! He has been very clear that he doesn't want a relationship with you. NEVER be with a man that you love more than he loves you. It is a recipe for disaster and heartache... LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!

[Valencia101]

Toots- your an obvious NUT Case. That's why your always calling women psycho. I think your a man cause no women would be as inconsiderate towards another women the way you are.

[toots2375]

Valencia- Did you even read her FIRST 'being in love'post? I don't think so. Until you do, don't crtique my comments. Get the WHOLE story, so that your ignorance is less obvious. I am no nut case, and I am most certainly a woman. I am simply not a woman who coddles other women. USE YOUR FRIKKEN HEAD INSTEAD OF YOUR HEART. Your HEART tells you your FEELINGS. Your FEELINGS will almost ALWAYS lead you to trouble. If you use your HEAD, you will make WISE decisions instead of FOOLISH ones... PS, it is OBVIOUS that YOU have no education. Your improper use of the English language and improper spelling is atrocious. Perhaps you would see my perspective if you actually had some education and could use your BRAIN instead of your FEELINGS. Psycho women profess love after a couple dates, Psycho women chase men that have made it clear that they do not want a woman. Psycho women call cops and make false charges. Psycho women coddle other women who make poor choices repeatedly (generally the same poor choices over and over again).

[Foundthebestman]

Val, ignore her, she comes on here thinking she's Dr. Phil and attacks some of the girls on here when they are obviously at a low point in their life. She thinks hurting them more is good for them. She's a bottom feeder like some of these men we run into that validate their own self worth by attacking people at their weakest. When you call her out on it her and her buddy Jasmine get all defensive and play the 'poor me victim role' and blame everyone else for not agreeig with her insults. She's a Narcisisst and knows it and doesn't like being exposed as one.

[Valencia101]

If it wasn't for heart, none of us would be here. That's how we exist, our main source of life. Without it your the

[toots2375]

Val- you COULD ignore all that I say, and it's your choice. You could also listen to Found, who likes to enable people by putting labels on them, so that they don't have to take accountability. If they are a 'narcissist' then it isn't their fault that they are rude, inconsiderate, abusive, selfish, heaters, wifebeater, etc. They have a DISORDER. Found likes to make excuses for people and their behavior, and she likes to call people names when they have a different opinion than hers. She also likes to home diagnose because she reads articles and books on certain subjects. She has no degrees, husband, children, etc., but believes that she can help all of these distressed women because at one point in time in her life, she had a man, and she couldn't keep him. He mistreated her, and now she is here to tell every woman that it isn't her fault, but the fault of the man, because he has some disorder or another. I, on the other hand offer nothing other than some common sense. Take it or leave it. Personally, I believe that you should listen to EVERYONE, and come to your own conclusions. The choice is yours...Be closed minded, or take in all the wisdom that EVERYONE has to offer and learn from it.

[toots2375]

Found- Bottom feeder? I am not the one that goes around to all of the forums here, only to trash other people's advice or opinions... Seems as if the pot is calling the kettle black... As to Jasmine, sometimes we agree, sometimes we disagree.. It's the luck of the draw...