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JuniperBreeze
Joined: 03 Jul 2008
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 Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 1:54 am Post subject: boyfriend says I dont participate enuff in sex |
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o.k so my boyfriend and I havent been going out for that long but i think our sex has been gr8.. he does too..but he says he does all the work.. now im a bit self conscience so im scared to get on top and ride him or do any other position where I am in control.. I want to blow his mind!!! please give me some tips!  |
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square813
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 . practice makes us perfect. who isnt self conscience at first but you cant blow his mind if your not willing to try. just climb on its awkward at first but once you find your rhythm its easy going and if he has the patience he'll help you along |
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courtneyiscool
Joined: 26 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject: I'd say go to the experts! I recommend buying a couple of |
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pornos and take a look at the techniques those women use. That would blow his mind for sure! Good luck and have fun!  |
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j pierre
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| the guy actually wants you to MOAN a bit more...believe me thats it. this is just an indirect way of asking you to do that. he wouldnt say this directly cos it would sound silly. moan like the girls in pornos or atleast make him feel that he is actually doing something. |
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JuniperBreeze
Joined: 03 Jul 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:26 pm Post subject: thanks |
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| thanks for everyone who took time out to respond to my post.. I will do each and everything you guys suggested...thanks alots! |
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ButtHurtAtAge16
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| Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 5:38 am Post subject: |
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when hes saying he wants you to be more active hes actually jus trying to get you to respond by sayin "i dont like being in control." wanna no y? cuz guys LOVE being totally dominant! so let him choke you and slap you around and call you a slut and stuff! thats what TRUE LOVE is thats why they say true love HURTS  duhhhh |
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usmc8408
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the best thing you can do is be honest and tell your guy that you're not quite sure what to do. i have been with some "dead weight" in the past, and it makes all the difference in the world when a girl speaks up and lets you know that are not sure how to up the game. plus it makes sex much more comfortable, where are real dude isn't going make you feel like a chump because you're unsure. you just need to speak up, because i promise you, any normal guy isn't going to play the chick role and be vague. we will tell you exactly what we want, when we want it, how we want it, and we'll show you it all too. and if you do it, then guaranteed, this post will fall silently into the archives because he'll be a happy camper, and you won't be back on here looking for answers.
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