couldn't get this to post: Beware Shane Kutner, aka Stros FL

[IhatePitbulls]

Ladies, this sordid tale dates back a few years.... this man is a playa! We dated casually a few times, then the text and emails started, how much he missed me, wanted me, call him asap! When I would return a call or text, he would be like "i am busy at work" "or I can't talk now". He sends flowers and candy and plays the "true romance" thing like it goes out of style tomorrow. while at the same time, he is trolling Craigslist, Match, JDATE (he's jewish and thats important to him so he says), Myspace, Facebook. He met a girl the day before me, and dumped me for her after asking me to commit to him. The minute I was like, sure, lets not date anyone else, the excuses and bulls--t started, and the romance died. I guess I should say, the minute we slept together. Then 4 years later, outta the blue, he contact me on myspace and he's married. OK cool, I have moved on, lets be friends. Then, "my wife has been cheating" "she left me" "help me through this" "she's been fucking other dudes" "omg she was in a porno" "I am so sad" and i listen to his craziness for hours on the phone. Within two weeks of her leaving he was back on JDATE and Myspace listed s single and looking for a long term relationship. I have to give him credit, he knows how to work the social networking. He admits to trolling and stringing ladies along from Jdate, dates sevral girls at time and never tells them about each other.
Fast forward now a few months past his actual annullment and he tells me it was a mistake and the timing wasn't right for us and he regrets breaking it off with me-4 years back. I'm in a personal rough patch as well, so I am thinking, "maybe he grew up a little..." WRONG! He asked me if I would give him a second chance... doesn't everyone get one? He is still the same, suck you in, take his emotional fill from you and leave you behind.
Watch out for this one ladies, its all one big game to see how much of his emotional void he can fill with you, and then he's out. One of my very good friends pointed out that him calling me after all this time was to prove to himself that he is not a total douchebag if I considered taking him back.
This guy has severe emotional problems stemming from.... honestly, i am not sure, but his whole MO is getting you all involved from the very first time you meet, emails, texts, flowers, the whole bit. The second you let your guard down and open up, he takes that and shreds you to pieces. And thats just being a "friend." Imagine the heartbreak I would have had if I had actually considered going back down that road! Stay away ladies, he's a cutie wit ha giant pitbull and cute townhouse in Sunrise, and he works hard, drives a nice a car and is covered in tats. And he's super clean, great housekeeper and a decent cook. But don;t let it fool you, its truly an OCD person that wants to hurt you as much as he's been hurt in the past. Good luck if you involve yourself past a few dates. And after 4 years apart, its not sour grapes. I can't believe I fell for all his bullshit, even from just a friend perspective.
dammit, i can't figure out how to make this post with a pic.
but i got one, promise. if anyone can actually show me how to post I would be happy to post that pic. but darn, i feel better already. thanks for the vent!


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[starkiller]

Dear IHatePitbulls,
You absolutely hit the nail on the head! I know because I am his ex wife. He did the same things to me when we met, jerked me around for months. I should have quite while I was ahead at that point but unfortunately I didn't. I chalk it up to being young (not even 21). He has extreme control issues and yes I was horrible to him in the time of us splitting up but I do not feel bad about it in the least. He was very mentally and verbally abusive and took advantage of weak minded people who would fall for his bull shit. He is very spiteful and selfish! I could say a lot more but it wouldn't make a difference. I advise anyone who engages in anything with him to take heed, there are several issues he needs to face within himself before he would be any good to another person.

[IhatePitbulls]

I am peeing my pants laughing.
Starkiller, I sent you a Private message. I would love to hear the other half of this story...
I hope you are well. Good luck, but do yourself a favor, and get some help to heal. I am surprised he's not trying to wrangle you back in.

Maybe more of these girls will show up, like the one who caused his DUI and he knocked up before he knew us, and the girl who "stalked him".
haha. hes the devil. Girls if you know this dude, fucked this dude, are fucking this dude, didnt but almost did, got fucked over by this dude, or are considering this dude, hear our tale, and on top of it, think twice, and chime in.

[Allaboutme75]

I know this guy too and and everything you girls are saying sounds exactly like what I just heard from him recently. I'd agree, he's damaged goods. How funny!

[IhatePitbulls]

I can't believe everyone is signing in at the same time to read and look for this guy. Did he just screw over like 5 girls at the same time? Well lets hear about it then!
Has anyone tried to post this in the regular section? I couldn't find him as posted and I couldn't get it to post.
But anyway, AllAboutME and Starkiller, ya'll made my weekend. If there are any other exes from 4 years back I am sure they are all hearing from him now anyway.
ha!