Danny Ray aka DJ Caudle

[againstDJ]

Ugh! My friend is dating this guy and he is nothing but the worst scum!

Here's some of the reasons she SHOULDN'T be dating him, in list form because there are A LOT!

1. He acts very trashy. His is one of those wannabe white boy gangsters and speaks, types and acts like it constantly.

2. He looks like a bum. He has the "chinstrap" beard growing but its really scraggly and gross, wears stupid sideways hats and retardedly tight pants.

3. He has several crazy ex girlfriends that he continues to see and sleep with, according to them.

4. He has some sort of communicable disease - ever since she started a physical relationship with him, her health has gone downhill. She is always sick to her stomach, has had cysts, coughing etc...

5. He has no future. He claims to be "almost pro" BMX rider, but he has spent more time in the hospital than anything else. He works for his father's construction firm and has no plans to attend college.

6. He is a drug dealer - he sells weed and other stuff and has been reported but never caught... yet.

7. He went to jail for stabbing one of his friends repeatedly when they tried to kick him out of the house for drug-related purposes, then coerced the family to drop the charges.

8. He smells really bad. Like Jazz on The Fresh Prince - cheap cologne and sweaty chicken.

9. He lives in a rundown trailer 30 minutes away from her.

10. He parties without her all of the time and hooks up with random girls. Because he lives far away and they don't share any friends, he keeps it from her.

11. He drives a white Ford Focus wagon and the tailgate is held closed with a bungee cord.

12. Her family hates him because he is really sketchy. They are worried he is turning her against them and she will run away and move in with him.

13. He abuses her verbally and possibly physically. She has become emotionally attached to him due to this treatment and her low self-esteem that causes her to cling. For example, if she goes out with ANYBODY, even her own family, he accuses her of cheating and refuses to speak to her for days. This has taken a toll on her health and emotional well-being.

14. He won't let her see her friends and turned her against them. She even stopped going to school because of it, and would have dropped out if she hadn't been able to take summer school and graduate early.

15. She doesn't really take pride in her appearance anymore. Since she only sees him about once a week, she doesn't shower regularly and wears sweats most of the time. It's hurting her socially at this point.

She is 17 and needs a lot of help and to know that he doesn't really love her, treats her poorly and there are a lot of better guys out there interested. She gets asked out all the time, but is unresponsive because he has her fooled so bad.

What can be done?

[againstDJ]

Please respond, I need to know how to help her without pushing her away.

[catscalw]

Against Dj...
Sad situation wih your friend. You can't control wheather or not you keep her as a "friend". The truth about this loser is far, far more important, and you might lose her, but you will still be her friend. Sometimes we have to tell our frinds things they don't want to hear, that's what being a friend IS: being honest with them, and NOT just telling them the things they want to hear.

[againstDJ]

please remove this post, the problem was solved

[againstDJ]

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