Dating Websites. Women stay off of them

[Mocha Flame]

I decided to get back into the dating community and thought perhaps a dating website might be a place to start. Women let me tell you this, it was the most demeaning experience I've have ever had. I was to old, to young, to fat, to skinny, didn't have enought money or to much. I was to pretty, to sophisticated, to well educated, not educated enough.

Then came the erotic talk, sensual talk, dirty talk, making dates then breaking them lies talk. These guys all want one thing. Sex, sex and more sex. Preferably oral or hand jobs. Meeting for coffee or dinner is usually out of the question unless you anty up pay your half and enjoy none of the sex.

So, I checked into other dating websites, guess what, same guys on the other dating websites. I couldn't believe it. So if you think you wil l meet the man of your dreams on these sites think again. It's players, sexually dysfuntional males, perverts, married men cheating, etc.

All you married ladies out there, wondering what your husbands are doing, there sitting at a library on public computers meeting women. You know why? No Paper Trail. Wake Up Women. Also, check out Craig's list
just might find that boyfriend of yours posting in the personals.

I found out before it was to late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wake up Women

[Guitarista]

You said it well, Mocha Flame.

And this is exactly why I seldom bother with websites. The real date and the real man is the exception rather than the rule there.

The problem with websites is that they're not real, and they appeal to men who are weak and who are not ready for relationships because they lend themselves to so much fantasy and illusion.

There are REAL places to meet men, where they must face you and continue to face you IN THE REAL WORLD.

Classes, church groups. places where you go to be yourself....places you will return to, and where men cannot run away if you set boundaries or disagree with them. Places where men have to face themselves...and where we all have to face ourselves.

The Internet simply is not a very good place for dating. It is convenient for those who can't get out often, but truly, it is second-rate at best.

As are bars.

Relationships are work. They're the thing that challenges us in this life more than any other challenge. We need to be up to it.

But they are also rewarding.

You can't do this kind of work, or find this kind of reward, via email or chat.

You have to get up off your butt and go out there and BE.

[suzi27562]

How very true, Mocha Flame! I met an online guy who was in law enforcement, or so he said, divorced, yeah, he said that too. At first it was fun chatting with him, but I hesitated in meeting him anywhere. He wanted it to be a very private place, too private. When he got insistent, I blocked him out.

Next was a guy who was fine, just like the other guy, at first. Then he said he was drunk one night and at once went into filthy talk. Blocked him out too.

In short, guys 'n girls, avoid that stuff. Not worth it.