DDHG and MySpace

[jadedinthagroove]

I'm not entirely sure that this post belongs under this topic, but I'm gonna put it here anyway.
I put up a post the other day about my ex-bf for the obvious reasons, to warn other women about him.
Not more than a day later he's getting messages on MySpace from some woman named ""Kelly"" friendid=32277585,
who quoted my entire posting to him!
She told him that she hated seeing men getting trashed on this site. Apparently, her and some friends check out DDHG, then go onto MySpace to find these men and solicit them to be part of a class action lawsuit that is being brought against DDHG. As she put it, she wants to see justice served.
The way I see it, it's none of her damn business if we want to post warnings to other women on here. I consider this site to be a public service since it's illegal to tattoo men across the forehead with the words cheater or abuser.
I hope she reads this post and comes to the realization that
A. She really needs to get a life.
B. Unless someone is posting something false about her or her friends on here, she needs to mind her own damn business.
C. The Supreme Court has already ruled that a website cannot be held accountable for any content that it's users post, so her efforts are futile.
D. There are worthier causes to get involved with such as women's rights, campaigns to stop domestic violence and HIV/AIDS awareness.

[courtneyiscool]

Thanks for the info. A couple of women on here are going to report this woman to MySpace and let them know what she's doing. It's so sad that a woman would waste her time doing this while DDHG helps women, funds projects around the country that help women.

[stormyautumn]

That is me...I just received all this hate messages in my email...I did not post any of those messages to anyone on here. I posted my ex boyfirend on here. He happens to be pretty good at computers i.e. breaking into my email, checking accounts etc and now since finding out I posted him on here is sending all sorts of things from my email and now apparantly my myspace account. I would neve do anything like that. I have as of this second changed my passwords..AGAIN. Please ladies stop sedning me threatening messages, it was not me. I don't appreciate people telling me they are going to find and kill me and I am a worthless loser. I am a victim just as you and this is onoy one of the many things this man has done to me.

[stormyautumn]

Csan you please remove the link to my myspace account so I can stop getting threatening email, thank you. It wasn't enough for the asshole to cause me pain and suffering now he is doing it to everyone else.

[brightred601]

All I gotta say is that this is some drama for you, lol.

[lovelite7]

I think it is terrible that someone would go and repeat what is in here to an ex in myspace or any other space. Sometimes it can mean a dangerous situation for the woman who posted when an angry man then lashes out.

I think as women we need to all stick together and empower each other.

[Guitarista]

Someone I was seeing was a jerk to me and I posted stuff about him here.

The post came up on google and it was after we'd supposedly become friends again.

So I was apologizing all over the place...he wrote some stupid refute and invitation for women to contact him and judge for themselves.

He went into jerk mode again and so I wrote more about him on this site.

And now, if he comes after me, whoever he tells about me will also see MY side of the story.

So I don't give a shit.

Let him come after me.

And if some woman is stupid enough to report anything that's here to him...

....then she deserves what she'll get from him. Nothing. Because he does not give..he only takes.

It's beyond my understanding what could make a woman so dumb she would do something like that...the only thing that pops up in my mind is that she's so very desperate for attention from guys that it's the only way she knows how to get it.

[courtneyiscool]

got on this site and invited women to judge for themselves. I'm sure some of them that he dated will be back to let us know what kind of guy he really is after they "judge for themselves" as he says.

[Guitarista]

Courtney,

The sad thing is, most of the women who get hooked by him probably won't even know about this site. They'll be young or inexperienced or naive or very compassionate and they'll feel sorry for his predicament and think he'll be appreciative for what they try to give him.

Either that, or he'll tell them about the post and spin it somehow so that it looks like he's the good guy and I'm some lunatic.

And believe me, he can spin.

The thing is, eventually he will get caught in his own web.

This is the type of thing I just can't continue to worry or think about...there's a sucker born every minute and all I can really do is try to make sure it's not me.

Btw he's on True.com...nickster2. And he had about three profiles up with different handles there before I reported him.

Who knows where else he has profiles. He's Nickster2 on MySpace as well....check out the twenty women friends he has. He's looking for some woman to save him. What she is supposed to get out of it is beyond me. I know I got pretty much nothing but crap. He could try to give of himself emotionally but if you don't agree with everything he says and do things his way, he'll take from you then shut you out.

I think the whole thing is...you just have to realize that the Internet is a den of depravity a good portion of the time...I said somewhere else on here, you just have to be careful and cover your butt well.

And of course, the most important thing to do is to put yourself first and not NEED a man....you just have to decide you're going to be happy, no matter what.

Sometimes it ain't easy...but it's the only way to do it.