| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Is your significants others best friend a: |
| Male |
|
0% |
[ 0 ] |
| Female |
|
100% |
[ 1 ] |
|
| Total Votes : 1 |
|
| Author |
Message |
jacymateer
Joined: 22 Jan 2009
Posts: 2
|
 Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 7:09 pm Post subject: Ex Lover/Best Friend Woes |
 |
|
So girls my boyfriend is best friends with his ex lover. Which he constantly reminds me that they had a very sexual relationship with whenever he drinks! Whenever he spends any time with her it's always alone. Or it's with two of his other male friends who are gay. We've been together for a few months now. He told me in the beginning that his past relationships hadn't lasted because the girls couldn't trust him with his best friend and I am seeing why. What really pissed me off to prompt me writing this is that 1. his ex met his cousin from England when she came to Aus for a holiday and had a family bbq and I didn't get invited.
2. She spent xmas day with him and his family and I didn't get invited.
3. he sneaks around to go out clubbing with her by himself.
4. He takes her to fancy restaurants for dinner when his idea of dinner for us is Mc Donalds or some other fatty fast food!
and 5. He doesn't have a licence so he drives her around when he is with her but expects me to drive him around when he is with me.
He doesn't understand where I am coming from. I have tried over and over again stating the obvious to tell him how I feel.
Do you girls have any suggestions or give me your opinions on this matter! |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
__penchant
Joined: 11 Jan 2009
Posts: 54
|
| Posted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 2:41 am Post subject: Re: Ex Lover/Best Friend Woes |
|
|
| jacymateer wrote: | So girls my boyfriend is best friends with his ex lover. Which he constantly reminds me that they had a very sexual relationship with whenever he drinks! Whenever he spends any time with her it's always alone. Or it's with two of his other male friends who are gay. We've been together for a few months now. He told me in the beginning that his past relationships hadn't lasted because the girls couldn't trust him with his best friend and I am seeing why. What really pissed me off to prompt me writing this is that 1. his ex met his cousin from England when she came to Aus for a holiday and had a family bbq and I didn't get invited.
2. She spent xmas day with him and his family and I didn't get invited.
3. he sneaks around to go out clubbing with her by himself.
4. He takes her to fancy restaurants for dinner when his idea of dinner for us is Mc Donalds or some other fatty fast food!
and 5. He doesn't have a licence so he drives her around when he is with her but expects me to drive him around when he is with me.
He doesn't understand where I am coming from. I have tried over and over again stating the obvious to tell him how I feel.
Do you girls have any suggestions or give me your opinions on this matter! |
WTF.  i wouldnt trust him either !!
you need to find someone who is willing to make you a top priority and treat you with the respect you deserve. this guy is completely inconsiderate of your feelings !!! (and possibly still in love/lust with his ex.)
ps.. i wonder if a comment from another post is applicable here.  |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
queue1114
Joined: 09 Feb 2009
Posts: 12
|
| Posted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 10:27 pm Post subject: Re: Ex Lover/Best Friend Woes |
|
|
| jacymateer wrote: | So girls my boyfriend is best friends with his ex lover. Which he constantly reminds me that they had a very sexual relationship with whenever he drinks! Whenever he spends any time with her it's always alone. Or it's with two of his other male friends who are gay. We've been together for a few months now. He told me in the beginning that his past relationships hadn't lasted because the girls couldn't trust him with his best friend and I am seeing why. What really pissed me off to prompt me writing this is that 1. his ex met his cousin from England when she came to Aus for a holiday and had a family bbq and I didn't get invited.
2. She spent xmas day with him and his family and I didn't get invited.
3. he sneaks around to go out clubbing with her by himself.
4. He takes her to fancy restaurants for dinner when his idea of dinner for us is Mc Donalds or some other fatty fast food!
and 5. He doesn't have a licence so he drives her around when he is with her but expects me to drive him around when he is with me.
He doesn't understand where I am coming from. I have tried over and over again stating the obvious to tell him how I feel.
Do you girls have any suggestions or give me your opinions on this matter! |
I'm a guy, and I will tell you what you may not want to hear. He is still having sex with her. You are the "other woman", and as long as you continue to allow yourself to be put in that position, he will keep stringing you along.
Your decision is simple:
1) You stay in a relationship as the "fallback" the "other woman".
2) You find someone who is really into you, and makes you his priority, and doesn't cheat. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
|
