FRANK TORRES~Seattle Heart Doc that is a heart breaker !

[DontGetMadGetEvi]

I met this man off a dating website nearly 11 months ago. I was very leery and cautious at first because he was a smooth talker and made a ton of promises that most guys would never make. He promised me trips around the world to locations I had always dreamed to see. He emailed me wonderfully written emails everyday he really new what to say. He would call me several times a day. I never imagined meeting someone who seemed so honest and sincere. After about a month after meeting him we decided I would move to Seattle from where I live and he would take care of everything. What a joke!
From that point on it was once lie after another......His mother died, He lost all his ID ,He was in the hospital, you name it I heard it.
I was supposed to move to Seattle by Aug 1st. I have everything I own packed up and in storage facility and I was staying with a friend because I let my apartment go. I quit my job and was actively searching for a job in Seattle. The closer it got to the 1st the more lies he began to tell. The 1st came and went and I was frantic going out of my mind while he tried to feed me ridiculous lies. I begged him several times to be honest with me and he insisted he was sincere and that everything would be ok. He never followed through with his mountains of promises.
I’m now stuck here without a place to live and all my belongings in a storage facility that I can’t afford to pay because I gave up my job. Not to mention my beloved cat went missing because I have stayed with several friends while waiting to move and someone accidentally let him out. That above everything else hurts the most. I’ve lost something because of all this I can’t get back, Thanks Frank!
When all the lies started falling apart I decided to do some checking and I called a friend who works in a court house in Washington. He had previously told me that his wife had filed for divorce and she had kicked him out of the house because she was mean and crazy ( his words not mine) I just knew that too must have also been all lies, it was.
No papers were filed that she could find so the next day I confronted him about it and I haven’t heard a word from him since!
I’m almost sure his wife has no clue what so ever what her husband does in his office on his computer everyday if she does, well that’s a whole other story. I’ve tried contacting her because if I were her I would want to know but I haven’t to this point been able to.
I should have listened to my inner voice but I wanted so badly to believe this dream he had so masterfully sold to me over the last 11 months.
I wonder how many other women he has been involved with from the internet, am I the only one that fell for this? Who knows!

[bugmenot123]

I'm so sorry to hear of your situation. If I were you, next time I'd pay a service like Intelius (they have a website and are legit) to do a background check on someone and get into the state court records. FYI in WA it's http://dw.courts.wa.gov/ to search for someone's name. Sometimes you can't get all the info but it can give you an idea of what you're looking at with regard to legal issues.

One foot in front of the other now, start over. It's all you can do at this point. Always listen to your gut. Again, I'm very sorry to hear all this. Please keep trying to find your kitty and always look forward. You're articulate, wiser, and human like the rest of us and we all need good teachers.

Best wishes to you-really. You have many, many people out here who are on your side and are wishing you well-including myself.