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PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2008 1:58 pm    Post subject: gary known as bowl836300 all over the dateing sites Reply with quote

This is for all the girls that Gary (bowl836300) has fucked with.

I was seeing/dating/relationship with Gary from well first time i met him was 12/30/07 to when I ended things with him on 04/27/08.

I have come to find out some information that i might not have been the only one he was doing this to.

I think it is wrong the way his boys stick up for him every time there's a new girl around. they don't say anything and just look the other way.

I am not one to post my whole life on here…. I just feel the need to let all the girls know how and who Gary really is.

I don't know how many of you there are and that's the least of my problems. I am not mad at any of the girls here as you may not have known what you were getting yourself into. I would wanna know the truth. That's not your fault. I am out to let every female know in the Rochester area what a true guy Gary really is.

I have been told that the girls come and go and the boys don't say anything about it. The girls never call Gary out so now I am here and NOW.

He has fucked with the wrong girl. I have the dates I was with him and can tell you if you wanna know.

I have nothing to hide.

I have always been up front and honest with Gary from day one and as you read this I hope you can understand where I am coming from.

This is all of our letters and comments back and forth during that time I was around.

I wrote this on Wednesday, February 13, 2008 and he did read this

OK so here's the deal. I do this............I mean write/ramble on when I think a lot. I don't want to make something outta nothing. I don't want to rush things yet it might be taken or seen that way. I don't want to push you away, over crowd you, make you think I am crazy (but I know I am LOL)or even over stay my welcome. I hate the whole not knowing of the dating world. It's been awhile. I hate not knowing the unknown. I play the whole pro's and con's, not that it runs my life. I know I have no control over peoples thoughts or feelings. I know where I am coming from and what I am doing. I like you a lot and I'm very comfortable with you. I even brought Autumn around and I am not one to do that as fast as I did. I know you said that you like me and want to see where this goes.......so I know we're seeing where things go. There are question I should ask but feel as if its something you want me to know you would tell me. I don't need or want to pry into your whole life story. As I have said I have nothing to hide.........I'm an open book. Just ask. lol You have things going on in your life that you are stressing over and you my not want me to know everything and that is ok with me. I don't need to know everything, but I am here if you if you need anything and I mean that. We have both been burned in past relationships and I can say for myself I should have issues and I mean issues. I am the too trusting, easy to forgive, I may not forget but I remember, willing to break myself down and forget my needs and wants to please everyone else or the guy. I know you know some of this but may not know the whole picture. Not that want to coming off needy or desperate. I have been pursued twice by one guy knowing that there was an issue of me being dinger's sister and how he couldn't date a buddy's sister, but fuck with my mind over the summer and lead me on. I knew full well of the issue in the beginning and went with it thinking it might work out. To being engaged, in a long distance relationship trying to move out of state, trying to go to court for custody and the ex didn't even want to talk to my lawyer or even go to any of my hearings but I was willing to move out of state for him. Then the almighty relationship autumn's father. Not the greatest relationship. 8+ years of every kind of abuse you could think of. Were trying to work things out but he's out fucking every girl he could and using me to pay the bills and forget to tell me that he's fucking everyone in the club. I would see him out and not knowing he's out where I am so thats why I don't do clubs. Cheated on me left and right and I finally had enough and walked away. I have managed to rebuild my life over from scratch and make the best attempt for Autumn to have a good life. I am not coming down on myself at all and I couldn't have done it with out my family and friends. I know I am a good mom!!!!!!!!!! I'll tell ya its hard for me to know what I have gone through in my life and knowing she had seen some of the abuse and the mind games he plays cause I have seen him do it to her. I hate the way he makes me feel, the way he can ruin my day, and make me feel like I am not the best mom in the world. If I didn't have to talk to him I wouldn't. I could care less what he dose in his life as long as he is there for his daughter. She will learn as she grows up what kinda of a man her father really is. I shelter her from the guys I see (not that it's a lot) and she's only been around the last 2 guys 3 counting you. I don't have random guys at the house cause her father is best know for the random girls he's been with. All the girls have watched my daughter without me knowing while he's been at work. I'm the more responsible, protective and not bash him in front of her parent. Now you think I am really crazy huh? lol But I do this and I write a lot of shit down and I over think way toooooooooo much. I know this. I have a big heart and want to take care of everyone. I guess thats the mom in me. lol My heart is always on my sleeve and fall hard and fast for what I want. I don't know maybe its my way of getting my thoughts down and out of me so I can stop thinking about shit. Don't take anything to heart that I have said. I am the most honest, caring and down to earth girl that is trying to live in this crazy world. I am just rambling on. And I will say it for you.......................YES I AM CRAZY. lol I just read this over from the beginning and I think I might be but only in a good way. lol I may not even send this but this is me and what I do. If I do send it WOW I don't need any answers. If you understand that. lol



From:

Gary

myspace.com/bowl836300

Date:

Feb 28, 2008 5:10 PM

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Date Sent: 2/28/2008 2:10:00 PM

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Right now you and I are lost and wierded out. It was hard to talk to you last night, and thats normal, but it shoudn't be under other circumstances... I know the both of us didn't plan this so thats why we are wierded out a bit i guess... Not something you wanna worry about just yet,,, you know........ I"m gonna be honest with you, and i always have been,,, but i have to wrtie this cause we both don't know what to say to each other.... Thats' just adding to more uncomfrontableness.Finicially I"m not capable of doing this,,, I"m in over 40,000 in CC debt, thats I"m fighting with right now... Alot of shit from my past is still haunting me, and I dont know what to feel or act about it.... I applied for over 10 jobs out west,,, I"m not sure what to do if they call me,,, cause that means I have opptunity to pack everything up and leave, which might be in my best interests cause of my past, but i'm always scared of change.. As you said we only known each other two months, I don't want this to be another Autunm thing. I like you alot and wanna see, but I don't want Joe, or a baby make me or us feel we need to stay together..... I say Joe cause you guys know each other so well, theres just some shit i don't wanna hear, know, whatever, its just wierd at times............ So just because i don't want this right now, doesn't mean i wanna stop seeing you... I mean you also have alot going on,,, You mention something about St.Patties day, and i can imagine all summer and moving in with the girls etc........ I'll just have to rap it now,,,, and i should have before, but i didn't know you weren't on the pill etc, or maybe it was a fluke,,, it happens, and I'm fine, not blaming you or I,,,,My Past and my EX..... my main ex cause I've had alot since the real main one,,, but anyways my main Ex and I were together for 10 years 2 years engage... I did everything with her in 10 years, had a ton of memories, until one night we had a fight and split... I was very suicidial that night and I tried to stab myself in her house and i wrapped a nuice around my neck and tried to strangle myself as i drove to work cause i worked nights then, and that was the first night i became a cutter...... She got a restraining order on me and then called my parents to see if i was at work and if i was ok,,,,, she never said anything to them about we broke up, or she had a restraining order etc,,, nothing to my parents who she called twice... At midnight two cops showed up at my work wanting to know if i was ok, and they never said anything about a order.... so all night i played music to her voice mail, beggin for forgiveness.... nothing,,, they next morning i tried to call cause we were suppose to have a picnic that day and take her car to the shop so i wanted to help and talk and try again.... she never answered,,,, but she knew i was going there.... She called the cops and they were waiting for me to come, and i was arrested for TRESSPASSING and HARASSING.... If i knew about the order i wouldn't have gone there, if she told my parents i wouldn't have gone there.... When i was takin to Greece jail thats when i was served with the restraining order, so I had to go to jail and get bailed out and i got a 6 months order of protection............... ok no biggie......... two months later on our daughters birthday she had me arrested again for VIOLATING THE COURT ORDER,,,, facing 7-15 years upstate...On the birthday i went up to the cemetary and she was there and on her way out... She left as i pulled up to the grave and she turn around and call the cops again... I didn't know she was behind me, until the cop came from behind, i didn't know he was there either, and arrested me again... I told the cop and the judge i didn't know she was there cause she left but they didn't believe me, casue i had "restinting arrest" on my charge also..... SO after alot of money and court cases and programs, I was sentenced to 3 years probation 3 years no contact. I"ve been on probation 2 years 2 months, and it sucks, but i'm free... I always told my dad that if they were gonna arrest me in the court house to not stop me, cause i would run and kill myself,,,, theres no way I"m sitting in jail..... So now with the ex and the 3 years no contact,,, that means if shes somewhere and I'm there i have to go and leave... example,,, 2 years ago hilton carnival, downtown, bike show, These are all places I've seen her and had to leave paying the 20 bucks to get in for 10 minutes at the bike show. I can't go to Pet smart in Greece cause he aunt works there.... The only reason for me to go there is to make a seen with her aunt,,, just a conversation, to let them know I"m alive and free and can't be stopped... My ex turn into a vendictive person, and after everything is up and done, I'm sure if i see her out and "I DON'T" have to leave that i will be arrested again, without a doubt that after 10 years she will call the cops again and have me arrested after i'm free... So I'm always Uncertain when i go out or anywhere. So my job looking out west is to close the door that everyone at my work has with my ex. I have alot of anxiety issues revolving her. Ya i know its been 2 years, but I"m still in a state of denial, uncertaintity, trust, I'm so lost on what a relationship is, love is, dating is.....You thoughts"







My response was this 2/29/08

ok so we are wireded out. I know that. I don't want to make you feel forced into anything you don't wanna do. I will do what ever you want me to do. I'm not trying to convince you of anything other then the fact that we are both in this and anything I do will be our decision and not one sided. yes I freaked because I've known you for 2 months and really not knowing where you and I stand just make's me think all this crazy shit in my mind. we know we like each other but as far and anything else I don't know. I don't ask because I don't want to push the subject. I know you have had issues in the past that you are still trying to deal with. I have let my walls and guard down and I trust you completely. I see so much potential in you even being us without making you freak out about that. I cant say I love you but its close enough. I care enough. I want to see you and help you and just hang out but like I said I don't want to over do it and now this. You have and make me happy and I like being with you. Yes I want this but knowing the facts it's probably better if I don't. Like I said I cant guaranty how I will be after and I really do like you a lot that my walls and the guard or gone and I trust you with my life if I had to. I see so much potential in you and us as present and hopefully in the future. As far as being finically ready for this no one is ever ready for it. Even if you think you are you really aren't. I know this I have gone through it. As far as Joe saying anything it's not his place to say anything. As far as trying to work things out for the baby sometimes it doesn't always work. that's where we both have to be honest and talk about where we are later on. With my situation before (autumns dad) I had an abortion. I knew it was the right choice but after I couldn't deal or cope with what I did. All the abuse I took I was not going to let another child see that. Having my sternum cracked, thrown to the ground and all the marks on my body there was no way I could have kept it. I know it was the best choice but it really fucked with me so much as I got so depressed and didn't talk to any one , lost friends, my job and all the energy I had went to autumn to make sure she was ok. let me tell you it was so hard for me to get up and take care of her. I stopped taking care of myself and my health was not so good. I finally got help but it still effects me. Things happen for a reason. Again I understand everything you said to me and I do agree. I wont make you feel tied down if you don't want to be. I will walk away. St paddy's day was nothing big just going downtown and drinking with everybody. The summer and moving in with the girls things happen and life changes. they can still have the house and live here if they want. Things happen for a reason and its how you deal with it makes you the better person. I don't want to stop seeing you or have you drop out of my life But I am here if you want me to be here and I don't plan on leaving you. I want to wok this out how ever it goes. Last night I hope I didn't scare you when I wasn't in bed. Between having to pee and being sick I just stayed downstairs. I didn't wanna keep waking you up.





After all of this I told him I was committed to him and wasn't looking for anything else and he told me the same.


----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: ^~^I'm not perfect but I am me^~^ Date: Apr 22, 2008 7:27 PM

ok so with out trying to sound like a bitch because I know this will but come on what the fuck????????

Saturday you didn't so much as say boo to me at the house when you showed up. I hugged Joe and was coming to see you and I thought I got a look so I backed away. Yeah I could have said something but you didn't look like you were in any mood. my fault for not saying anything.

Sunday I know I was wrong for just showing up and saying I want my movies. But it was part of why I showed up. I asked if you wanted me to come over later and I got nothing so I just showed up after the shower. Yeah a little erked but I was ok other then the headache I had.

We write notes and don't talk about shit afterwards. I want to talk to you about shit without yelling and getting pissy and without me getting all upset and crying over stupid shit. Not that we are going to yell. I mean if you don't want me around just tell me.

Your mood has been all over the last month and so has mine and maybe because we haven't really talked about shit.(as in whats the issue of the day)

I know on the pill I was fine and my mood wasn't bad but now being on the patch I have noticed that I am all over the place. Not that I am blaming the patch because we have both had some issue's we are dealing with without really leaning on each other to deal with it together.

I mean I am ready and willing to do what ever you wanna do but I feel as if I am being tossed to the curb sometimes. Not saying we have to do everything together. But I want to see you every now and then without it being to much.

I have invited you out when I go even if it's just some stupid random shit were doing.

Yeah I know money is tight for both of us but you just cant sit in your house all the time. I know I can be just as bad and sitting and doing nothing. I'm not trying to pick about any one thing here. I just don't know what to do with out really sitting and talking to you about this. I mean lay it all out on the line and go from there. Get everything out in the open and if we still want this then we will work through it. i know i can be over bearing sometimes and seem needy but when we dont talk ,text or see each other i get kinda funky and way over thing shit and then dont know what to think.





He responded with this

just to let you know i did read this i will write,,,when i gather and comprehend shit

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From: ^~^I'm not perfect but I am me^~^ Date: Apr 23, 2008 12:32 PM

i start monday morning 8-4 at $10 an hr monday - friday i'm doing resets for the local rite aids in the rochester area yeah it temp but i'll do it cause its easy shit. thinks its about 2 months or so maybe longer now about everything else wow hum i'm not trying to get you mad and i didnt mean to be bitch autumn came home sick and dad was drunk with my uncle and they took off and didnt come home till early this morning and i had shit i had to do yesterday and counldnt do it with autumn being home. and i kinda took it out on you and i really didnt mean to. i know i was wrong to do that. i am sorry. i am doing better today knowing i get to go to work monday morning. like i said i know my mood has been all over and i am getting that part taken care of i do know i like you alot and want to be with you and i am not trying to fuck this up by the shit i am doing here and now. i wanna talk to you so when you have time and wanna talk let me know



i know,,,, i'll add more later on

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From: ^~^I'm not perfect but I am me^~^ Date: Apr 22, 2008 7:27 PM

ok so with out trying to sound like a bitch because I know this will but come on what the fuck???????? Saturday you didn't so much as say boo to me at the house when you showed up. I hugged Joe and was coming to see you and I thought I got a look so I backed away. Yeah I could have said something but you didn't look like you were in any mood. my fault for not saying anything. Sunday I know I was wrong for just showing up and saying I want my movies. But it was part of why I showed up. I asked if you wanted me to come over later and I got nothing so I just showed up after the shower. Yeah a little erked but I was ok other then the headache I had. We write notes and don't talk about shit afterwards. I want to talk to you about shit without yelling and getting pissy and without me getting all upset and crying over stupid shit. Not that we are going to yell. I mean if you don't want me around just tell me. Your mood has been all over the last month and so has mine and maybe because we haven't really talked about shit.(as in whats the issue of the day) I know on the pill I was fine and my mood wasn't bad but now being on the patch I have noticed that I am all over the place. Not that I am blaming the patch because we have both had some issue's we are dealing with without really leaning on each other to deal with it together. I mean I am ready and willing to do what ever you wanna do but I feel as if I am being tossed to the curb sometimes. Not saying we have to do everything together. But I want to see you every now and then without it being to much. I have invited you out when I go even if it's just some stupid random shit were doing. Yeah I know money is tight for both of us but you just cant sit in your house all the time. I know I can be just as bad and sitting and doing nothing. I'm not trying to pick about any one thing here. I just don't know what to do with out really sitting and talking to you about this. I mean lay it all out on the line and go from there. Get everything out in the open and if we still want this then we will work through it. i know i can be over bearing sometimes and seem needy but when we dont talk ,text or see each other i get kinda funky and way over thing shit and then dont know what to think.









who said i was pissed

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From: Meet Foster Date: Apr 12, 2008 1:08 PM as i said my down fall is being able to lean on you when i need to. i have always done and dealt with shit on my own. never had a guy wanting to be there when i needed it so i have learned to keep everything to myself. as far as trust all i meant was i do trust you and i need to lean on you when its a shitty day. i know this and just need to do it. i didnt mean anything bad by saying trust cause thats not the issue. you get pissed off at me tell me then and there. bring it up to me. lets bitch and have make up sex lol i dont know what,,,,,, who said you had issues or we were gonna fight over the stuff............................... who said anything about not trusting...................................................................... . ................................................................................ ................................................................................ ................................................................................ ................................................................................ ................................................................................ ...........

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From: Meet Foster Date: Apr 11, 2008 8:01 PM

i should be able to go to you. i just didnt. my mistake everyone handles shit different you get quit and keep to youself i need something to do to get my mind off of it the last thing i wanna do is have issues or fight over stuff. i am sorry i do trust you i have to learn that i can lean on you when i need it thats my down fall

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From: Gary Date: Apr 11, 2008 5:53 PM

so when the tough gets going you cant face me

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From: Meet Foster Date: Apr 11, 2008 5:49 PM

I'm sorry I have no excuse for what I did. I had enough going through my head at the time I quit I just didn't wanna burden you with my shit. kinda wanted time on my own and I had that at Timmy's doing Rachel's room I was by myself and left alone. I know if I went home I would have to face my reality and wasn't ready for that. yes I wanted to see and be with you but I was really a wreck and just needed some time that's all. didn't mean to offend you in anyway that was the last thing I wanna do

you know what ERKED me,, was the day you quit or that friday you said you were coming over after work had a bad day,,,ok,, and then you said you were going home for the night,,, but you went to timmy..............................no big deal,,, but there was other times a few that you did something like that,,,, I'm not saying i'm a complete angel either,,, but i didn't care for that.............

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From: Meet Foster Date: Apr 10, 2008 9:28 PM

i do sleep better in the middle beside how could i sleep when i have you and zeus ZZZZZing in my ears most of the night lol all i was saying is that i am missing you guys i'm not going to press anything so when your wanting to do something you know my number (dont wanna make things worse) just don't push me away is all i ask if i dont hear anything for a few days expect a text, drive by, phone call or just some crazy shit coming from me. i have no problem of breaking in.....not that i would i'm not that crazy lol really i wouldnt!!!!!!!!!!!!! just do what you need to do and i'm here i'm not going anywhere

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From: Gary Date: Apr 10, 2008 7:21 PM

u said you dont sleep much in there,,,, lol,,,,

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From: Meet Foster Date: Apr 10, 2008 8:55 AM Meet Foster has posted a new comment about you on MySpace! According to your privacy settings, all comments must be approved by you before they appear on your profile. Meet Foster's Comment: "i sleep better in the middle...... miss you boys"









And this is all the stuff I was able to get and now know about. As I said I am not out to hurt any of you girls I am just making it be known what is going on



Girl 1

•·.·•ßÅЩHÏÇK•·.·•


it doesnt matter....I shouldnt even broung it up, guess I'm acting jealous and I know I shouldnt

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From: Gary
Date: Apr 14, 2008 1:18 PM


who else am i talking too

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From: •·.·•ßÅЩHÏÇK•·.·•
Date: Apr 13, 2008 5:00 PM


I'm slowly beginning to think your really not intrested in dating but then again I always think negative, bad things happen to me so I always have to think the worst before I get hurt again. I see that your talking to someone else and thats cool if thats what you want. I do like you and I wouldnt mind dating, It does work both ways though. I was being honest and I was upfront when I told you what I was looking for. I'm tried of the games and drama in my life and I'm ready to be with that last person. If you dont want that from me personally, can you please tell me? I dont want to continue to try if you dont want to.

Girl 2 Tracy

Works been picking up with the coming of spring. Ive got 1 job and three estimates to do this coming week. Where do you go to ride?? I've been spending a lot of time hiking lately: ) I'm enjoying the birds singing and the spring flowers.. Yeah, I kinda go day to day too.. I've got a busy weekend this weekend.. then an exam on Monday.. yippee: )
Have a great weekend: ) ~Tracy
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From: Gary
Date: Apr 3, 2008 3:55 PM
well thats really awesome,,, hows work been?? getting busy??
I dont have much plans on any weekends,,, i pretty much go day by day unless something comes up... Now that weather is warming up i'll be trying to ride some... etc

well hope all is good...
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From: Tracy
Date: Mar 22, 2008 9:45 AM
My weekend (last weekend) Was awesome: ) This one's going to be even better. I'm very much looking forward to spending time with my family. Tonight I'm going to see my brother play with his new band members. He got 2 new singers and a bass guitarist. I'm very excited for him. He's had a tough time getting people to be consistent to play and get along. I'm going to spend the night at his place and then we're going to my dad's for brunch and then a movie and dinner with my mom.. Makes for a busy day. How about you? What are your plans for this weekend?

I like watching all of those kinds of movies too.. Mainly action-adventure.. I like watching them by myself, but I agree it's more fun to share the experience with someone: ) Especially if there's cuddling involved: ) haha

The conference was amazing! I had a great time and learned a lot. My friend was very happy I went with her too. I met some cool people and saw some neat stuff.
I hear copper is the way to go. It doesn't release toxins as does other pipes. It must be a bit more expensive though, but well worth it in my opinion. Things like tha tare ALWAYS more work than we anticipate, aren't they?? Gotta love it.

I'm sooooo looking forward to Spring.. It's finally here: ) I love hearing the birds in the morning and seeing the sunshine!

Well, have a great day: ) And Happy Easter; )
~Tracy
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From: Gary
Date: Mar 2, 2008 7:04 AM
Hey Lady,,,, How has your weeek and weekend been...
Mine has been great I can't complain,,,, just working and doing some home repairs still.. I did a bunch of my copper pipes in my house,,, I'm redoing it from the Gal that was in there to new 3/4 copper... Its a fun job, just a little more time consuming than I thought.
I love to cuddle and watch a movie.... I'll watch any movie... I like horror,, action,,,, it really doesn't matter, as long as someone is there to watch it with.... I just hate watching something by yourself..

How did you conference go in the CUSE??

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From: Tracy
Date: Feb 22, 2008 2:50 PM
I agree on the cuddling and watching a movie.. thats very nice: )
It made me think of laying outside in the summertime looking up at the stars and just listening to the sounds of nature....
What kinds of movies do you like to watch?

I had a great weekend too,, other than studying of course; (
I went to a movie actually.. fools gold or something it was called.. It was pretty good.

This weekend I'm going to a conference in Syracuse with one of my friends. I haven't quite decided if i'll stay the entire weekend or not. I figured I'd play it by ear and see how it goes.

I hope you're having fun: ) Take care ~Tracy

Girl 3

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From: Gary
Date: Apr 2, 2008 9:55 AM


over to get some dinner,,, over for a movie,,, I dont know,, get to know each other etc

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From: Alicia
Date: Mar 28, 2008 11:17 PM


over where~ AND FORWHAT???
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From: Gary
Date: Mar 27, 2008 8:34 PM


MAUH,,,,,, got you message again on singlesnet,,,,, when you coming over...Smile

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From: Alicia
Date: Mar 22, 2008 6:13 AM


how ever! have a great day!!! Later

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From: Gary
Date: Mar 21, 2008 3:18 PM


no I'm actually the quiet one........

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From: Alicia
Date: Mar 21, 2008 12:37 PM


u sure do have a way of getting your point across! I guess you will not go unheard!!! LOL I like your music on your page! got some good tunes!

Girl 4

I know....yesterday was sooo promising!!!! minus the winds!!! hahaha.... Work has been ok I suppose....out of no where today I got pulled into my managers office and got talked to about how I act like I dont care about my job and act like I dont want to be there!!!! They are insane!!!! I have no idea what in the world they are talking about!!! I kinda laughed after!!! I work at ESL bank.

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From: Gary
Date: Apr 2, 2008 5:19 AM


the weather is breaking,,,,, How has work been,,,,what do you do???

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From: ~*HD*~
Date: Mar 29, 2008 3:52 PM


hahaha....ride anytime.....excellent!! LOL well yeah i assumed it wouldnt be for a while....but def cant wait til this darn weather breaks!

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From: Gary
Date: Mar 29, 2008 4:51 AM


i can ride anytime,,,, oh you meant the bike,,,,, well the weather has to break and a few days of rain with no salt

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From: ~*HD*~
Date: Mar 29, 2008 12:34 AM


so when is the ride?

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From: Gary
Date: Mar 27, 2008 10:52 PM


when you wanna ride.....................on the bike ,,,,lol

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From: ~*HD*~
Date: Mar 27, 2008 10:40 PM

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From: ~*HD*~
Date: Mar 27, 2008 10:40 PM


Yeah I am recently out of a 9 year thing......dated here and there.....nothing serious....but just like you....always lookin!! LOL

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From: Gary
Date: Mar 27, 2008 10:32 PM


i've been single for almost 3 years,,,, my last relationship was 10 years,,,, but i've dated since then just nothing you could call a "relationship"

You

Girl 5


happy easter!!!!

----- Original Message ----
From: Gary Randall
To: DeAnna Barton (Deebear28)
Sent: Tuesday, March 18, 2008 6:38:00 PM
Subject: Re: SORRY!!! Sad

look lady everything is fine,,, i never hate anyone, I always wish them the best out of whatever happens with me in there life.... Its not your fault..... You need to do WHAT you need to do to be happy.. I'm always will be here for a friend, i just wanted to get to the bottom seeing i was getting emails from you but no phone calls.....but now you also see where i come from also, and i'm glad we got that out.....

G

----- Original Message ----
From: DeAnna Barton (Deebear28)
To: Gary Randall
Sent: Tuesday, March 18, 2008 5:51:17 PM
Subject: Re: SORRY!!! Sad

Yes I know and I am sorry, It was my fault. I am not sure what happened on that day, I know I did paint some, I think my mother came over, but I am not possitive. I have very short memory.

Again I am sorry, I guess, I have a lot on my plate right now and I am getting stressed, its comming to the end of my last semester and I am not sure what is going to happen to me and everything.....Can we still be friends? witheverything still going on.



Gary Randall wrote:

I know we were not in a "relationship",,,, but you can't move forward if you don't talk.....you asked for help painting, i said i would, I called got the answering machine,,, you never returned my call,,,, so relationship, friendship you still need to communicate... Ya i have no problem taking things slow

----- Original Message ----
From: DeAnna Barton (Deebear28)
To: Gary Randall
Sent: Monday, March 17, 2008 8:48:16 PM
Subject: Re: SORRY!!! Sad

I'm not sure exactly sure what your trying to say here, but I was taking things slow, I really wasn't sure how I felt about you, other then getting to know you, taking it slow!!!!! I'm sorry that it was not what you thought it was!!!! I'm not going to take me off there if I am not in a relationship with someone, We were getting to know each other, we were not in a relationship!!!!..... And I was in the wrong for not being clear and not telling you where I was comming from.....



Gary Randall wrote:

people dont know where your coming from if you dont tell them,,, people see that you change your picture on cupid so you aint that interested in, say me, if your looking......

----- Original Message ----
From: DeAnna Barton (Deebear28)
To: bowl836300@yahoo.com
Sent: Monday, March 17, 2008 7:18:49 PM
Subject: SORRY!!! Sad

I am sorry that I have offended you! I did not mean to make you not want to talk to me. I have been busy, I am sorry!!! I know I should have called you more. I just wish you knew alittle more about me, and maybe you would understand were I am comming from. I want you to know that you are a great person and that anything that I didn't do was because of you!!!! It was nice to have been your friend for the little while it was for.... You didn't have to be so rude when I Imed you either. I was never like that towards you!!!

Sincerely,

DeAnna

Deanna Barton
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broadview



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:27 pm    Post subject: wow what a waste Reply with quote

over a year of your time wasted!
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courtneyiscool



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 8:47 pm    Post subject: I am so sorry you had to go through this, girl! It's not Reply with quote

right, but thank you so much for warning us all!
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 7:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Does anybody know if THIS GUY is a cheater?
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bowl836300



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 9:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Na, I don't think he did, he just played the field and when something promising happened he stayed with it, until..... I"m sure if you look through his eyes, you will see that this girl who wrote this; SLEPT in his driveways a few nights, has left work early to go to another guys house and talk,,lol, has obsessed over his dog and even join all the clubs and got the same kind, she followed him to all his groups using secret names to be a stalker. She got very wierd the last few months, and he looks like to not even wanna bother with that,,, She proved to him she couldn't be TRUSTED..... You gotta be dating someone for it to be cheating, go leave work early so you can not talk to him
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 4:07 am    Post subject: removeremoveremoveremoveremoveremoveremoveremove Reply with quote

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