gay guys giving me interest?

[pilot-girl]

hi girls,

first time poster! like time reader though.

so i'm going to school here in italy and i've met a guy... he's taken a real interest in me, though it's hard to tell with how much effort these italian guys put into it, as they seem to give all the girls all the attention you could ever want.

but here's the problem, i was really hitting it off with this one guy, and i always had a thing for a guy with an accent, and just seemed so suave! and so i go back to class the next day and i spot him making out with another guy?! then i hear from everyone he's gay!! but that same night i meet with him again and he's really hinting at wanting to have sex??

so later i talked to him about it and he wants to have sex with a girl, and he's super cute... but it had me thinking, why would a gay guy that good looking pick me? but he totally had me... so we have sex and i really felt like there was something there, but the thought of him not actually being aroused by a girl was stuck at the back of my head... it's almost like i was used or something?

what do you girls think? i'd love to hear your opinions about it.

[My VJJ]

Hey there Pilot-Girl!=] I’ve been reading this site for a while and felt this was the best time for me to jump in. Italy is an amazing place, I’ve been there a few times myself. The funny thing is I actually dated an Italian when I was in my 20's but that was-God knows how long that was ago. They are amazing men, he sure knew how to treat me. First things First, are you sure it was another male? Italian women tend to be very masculine themselves, maybe he just conveys certain interests in many women, although on the other hand how do you act? Perhaps you are very masculine yourself and he is interested due to your manliness; No offense ovbcource. I think it is good either way that you have found someone to connect with being in school and all. But perhaps once again you should try to turn this man to your awes. You never know maybe he will turn out to be straight, maybe it is a true miss understanding and everyone is just jealous of your vicious looks and he is straight. But then why would you want to waste your time on a guy that you see with another person making out? You never know but if there is one thing I learned from my 8 1/3 years in medical school, the best things always come from the worst. So just go for it, experiment, try it out who cares? Maybe your staring at your future husband; or maybe a undeceive homosexual male.