Getting Passed The Hurt?

[DaraRose]

My mother told me that my supposed boyfriend was flirting with her online - and that included sending her dirty pictures of himself. I dumped him and he keeps calling me, texting me...I need him out of my life if I'i going to move on..How can I move on..We were really close for 3 years and I'm devestated by the course of events. I can't get revenge and I have no energy left to even cry...

[lovehurt]

dont let him bring u down. u gotta keep your head up. Its ok to be friends. do u think u can handle that.

[miztakenqt]

if you feel you truly cant move on unless he's out your lyfe... just shut him out... change your number... delete and block him from whatever you two may use to communicate.... if you see him in the street walk a different way or something... and if none of these things work get a restraining order to keep him from contacting you and then at least you will have the peace of mind to move on and get yourself happy

[MissPrissy7]

What a DOG! Wtf dirty pictures to your mother what kind of disrespectful shit is that! I’m sorry but my advice would be to get CLOSURE! It’s so much easier to move on after you tell him EVERYTHING on your head…. Tell him he hurt U, ask him how could he, tell him how much you loved him and how his actions devastated you and are unforgivable. After you get it off your chest say to him if he ever really cared and if he truly respects you he’ll respect your wishes and let you go… If he still chooses to text and call then I would change my numbers and do my best to block ALL communication but first get your closure so can properly move on.

[courtneyiscool]

is post the guy on here and hope that no other woman goes through what you went through. And please do not call, text or ever speak to this loser again, girl!

[victimofdecept1]

As wrong as they are it is not easy to get past the hurt and get over him, however, if he flirts with your mom, he will flirt and god knows what else with others. Know your worth. You deserve someone who is willing to be for ONLY YOU!!!! Stay strong!!! Be Blessed!!!

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[Humanity2008]

Dara, I agree with whomever said to tell the guy whats on your mind. Then tell him you want him out of your life and...."MEAN IT". Then go on to a new life to find some who would treat you wonderfully and respect you. You have to get rid of that garbage. At least you have an opportunity for closure since he is making himselve available. Most women do not get that chance because the guy just leaves their life with no explanation. That's what happened to me. I met someone who simply took my breath away. He was educated, a professional and even had a high profile position. I found he was very married not finalizing a divorce as he told me. He had another girl friend of 7 years. The most devasting was that I found several detail profiles on gay men's websites. They had his pictures and one a photo of his penis, hanging out of his jeans. I needed for him to face me for closure. He did not. He sent his sister, his girlfriend and attorney, who tried to prevent posting on Dont Date Him Girl and another blog just about him. Closure is very important in healing. Since he would not face me, I wrote the blog. Read the blog and feel fortunate that you have that rare opporunity to have closure by directly communicating. Here is my blog about Steve:

www.justperfectinLA.blogspot.com

[Guitarista]

Any man who avoids facing the consequences of pain he has caused to a woman by running away and refusing to face her in person deserves a blog on this site.

He wouldn't get away with that, if he'd wronged a man.

And he shouldn't get away with it, with a woman, either.