guys! do you all still look?

[87chick]

I would perfer guys honest opinion. While I was with my x he would "get bored" he says and go online-- myspace and talk to girls about how beautiful they are and wanting to meet them.

he claims still that he still loves me and girls online are just a hobby?

should i believe him? How can you love someone and talk about meeting up with another girl?

do u talk 2 girls online inappropriately while in a relationship?

[catscalw]

I gave my heart to the my sweetheart years ago.
In my opinion, there is no room in that for a "Hobby" of hitting on other women, that's utter bullshit.

Maybe it's cause I'm a one woman guy, even when it's not that great ( we are rarely intimate these days, and it's a huge issue,) but my commitment to her and myself is that I will end the relationship before I betray her trust and my word.

It's not like I'm not attracted to other women...my wife has many lovely, single women friends who are gorgeous and desireable. Two of them (who are no longer our friends) have hit on me, and made it very clear that they wanted to hook up, but I'm a one woman guy.

Yes, monagamy has it's challenges, made more difficult by the fact that male sexuality is like a big boulder rolling down the hill, or a giant hand shoving you forward. Sites like this one are a testement to the fact that many men can't deal with the strongest drive we have as men.

You have to work at relationship and monogamy. It has to be important to you, you have to believe in it, and live it. Walk the fucking walk...

You have to put endless time and energy into relationships. You have to continually bring the love and the romance, to be creative and make her feel special, appreciated and desireable. You have to show her, now, today, and again, tommorrow through your actions. You can't do that if your "Hobby" is to hit on other women on the internet.

And what do you get for it? Everything... To be in love with a woman who loves you back, is to to touch, for one brief moment, the force that spins the worlds and dances the stars around the singing emptiness and quiet.

Sorry guys, but there is no other game worth playing.
Y'all can cheat, lie, betray your partners and your word in the name of getting your rocks off. Your world ends at the tip of your dick, that's why you are bored.

Y'all have fun on the inernet hitting on other women.

I'm gonna go try and work it out with my wife.

[__penchant]