Has any of you Women Ever told a Man that you loved him firs

Valencia101 · Joined: 09 Jun 2007 Posts: 0

I met a man I fell in Love w/ at first sight. It tooks months for me to even speak to him even though he would speak to me. I finally got up the nerve to talk to him one day and every since then we were inseperable. We would talk on the phone for hours and talk about everything and this was before we even went on our first date. As time went on we got closer and just a little more physical w/ one another. This man made me feel like I never felt before. Keep in mind I'm a 29 year old woman who thought I knew what love was until I met him. I actually felt my heart move when he talked to me or touched me. I couldn't let him go another day w/o telling him how I felt. Shortly after that he ended the relationship. Completely, were not even friends anymore and we never even had sex. What Happened?

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

I don't have a clue what happened. Perhaps he got bored, perhaps he met someone else, perhaps he was sick of having blue balls. We don't have his side of the story. He is the only one that can tell you what happened.

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

I think I answered her question intelligently. You interpreted what YOU believe a silent male behavior to be- and stated it for fact. You cannot KNOW what his behavior means. His behavior can be interpreted in a NUMBER of different manners and they all would be partially true, false, or indetermined.

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

You never ever ever tell a man you love them first. Ever. I dont care if you have to swallow your tongue from letting them words come out. A man should always love you more than you love them. Next time keep your heart to yourself and pretend you dont give a crap about him and then you will see the difference.

Foundthebestman · Joined: 03 May 2007 Posts: 20

Some people are just not as EXPERIENCED as you Toosty.........oopsies...my bad. BTW, Absolute truth? Now where's your common sense.

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

Oh toots here we go again with another hater. Gee whiz cant they just admit we have been the longest posters and we dont care what they think of our post.

Foundthebestman · Joined: 03 May 2007 Posts: 20

YAY to the Bopsie twins, you win the award for the longest running posts on this site. Now THAT's a real life accomplishment. LOL

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

Thank you.. I appreciate the award, but really, it isn't important enough to make room for it on my wall... I have pictures of my children, my degrees, etc...Just no room for a 'I am a self-righteous bitch, and don't agree with your opinions, so I will give an ignorant award in hopes that she will be too ignorant to realize it for the insult that it was.' Sorry, I couldn't make that awards dinner...Too busy washing my hair... And picking lint out of my belly-button...It's all about priorities you know...

trish9i6 · Joined: 15 Aug 2007 Posts: 0

Well i told my current boyfriend that i loved him first....he was shocked at first but said that he had been wanting to tell me the same thing for a long time, it was just that he thought i would get scared and push him away. It actually brought us closer. I am glad i said it, because now i know how he feels about me.

beulah · Joined: 12 May 2007 Posts: 0

Toots thinks she knows it all - those are the people to beware of, because they have lost the capacity and the willingness to learn.