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ghantol
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 Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 6:59 pm Post subject: He really degraded me during sex .....should i complain ?? |
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i was really attracted to this guy and i approached him a few times and he was giving mixed signals first but then one day he just took me out and had sex with me. although i didnt want to but he sort of convinced me and i couldnt say no bcos otherwise he wouldnt want to have a relationship and i was the one who walked upto him so i let him.
but he handled me badly. he just groped me and then stripped me and made laughed at my genitalia saying they were funny and hairy and after that he just stopped and pulled his pants back and said he would drop me home.
he ignored me after that and i am feeling degraded. its like he raped me. i want to tell this to someone. i want to file a case against him. is it possible since he co-erced me and degraded me. like rape or molestation |
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Forgethimnot
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:38 pm Post subject: Re: He really degraded me during sex .....should i complain |
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| ghantol wrote: | i was really attracted to this guy and i approached him a few times and he was giving mixed signals first but then one day he just took me out and had sex with me. although i didnt want to but he sort of convinced me and i couldnt say no bcos otherwise he wouldnt want to have a relationship and i was the one who walked upto him so i let him.
but he handled me badly. he just groped me and then stripped me and made laughed at my genitalia saying they were funny and hairy and after that he just stopped and pulled his pants back and said he would drop me home.
he ignored me after that and i am feeling degraded. its like he raped me. i want to tell this to someone. i want to file a case against him. is it possible since he co-erced me and degraded me. like rape or molestation |
WELL LET ME FIRST SAY! THAT IS AWFUL! YOU SHOULD HAVE NEVER EVEN PUT YOURSELF IN THAT POSTION, HOWEVER IT IS OVER WITH NOW AND HE CAN NOT DEGRADE YOU ANYMORE. I KNOW YOU MAY HAVE LIKED HIM A LOT, HOWEVER IN REALITY NO GUY WILL EVER WANT A REAL RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO JUST PER SAY JUMPS INTO THE SACK WTIH THEM. IF YOU WANT A NICE SWEET GUY, THAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO REALIZE...BEFORE YOU GET HURT EVEN WORSE. SECONDLY IT WAS NOT RIGHT IN WHAT HE DID TOO YOU, AND MAYBE YOU SHOULD NOTIFIY THE POLICE DEPT. DON'T BE EMBARRASSED DARLING, WE ALL HAVE HAIR DOWN THERE AND HE WAS A IMMATURE JERK. LET IT BE A LESSON LEARNED....IF YOU WANT THEM TO LOVE YOU THEN DON'T SLEEP WITH THEM UNTIL MUCH MUCH LATER, THEY WILL RESPECT YOU FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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ktr899
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| Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject: never allow it |
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| I'm so sorry that happened to you. No one should ever be treated like that. Even if you liked him before, you shouldn't like him at all anymore. He didn't respect you, and you should try and make sure someone respects you before you sleep with them. You don't need to sleep with someone to get them to like you. I was reading an article in vdateonline.com, which has great dating advice, and there's some great things about what to look for in potential mates. I don't think you need to file a police report because he degraded you, but don't let that happen again. If he's rude to you, get out and never talk to him again. You don't deserve that! |
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MysteriousLurker
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| Posted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 1:45 am Post subject: Re: He really degraded me during sex .....should i complain |
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| ghantol wrote: | ....and i was the one who walked up to him so i let him.
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Those are the operative words here...You LET him. It was consentual. He was a jerk and make you feel badly but he didn't break the law and that is the issue here. You might want to take this as a learning experience. Not every guy who is "cute" is going to be right for you. Some of the most physically beautiful people I have known are some of the ugliest inside. |
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