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strong_willed
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| omg how ridiculous and immature saing it's "rape". It wasn't rape, he never FORCED himself onto her and yeah, SOME of us HAVE been forced and know what it's like. There was no fear, no force, just her humiliated because he laughed at her. Move on! |
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Bottlecap
Joined: 23 Feb 2009
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| Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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This man was obviously sick in the head to treat you that way... He's probably not gay, but rather just into some "freaky" shit (such as getting turned on by degraded women, as you've found out the hard way.) Perhaps he's seeking control because of lack of control he had in the past (like sexual abuse as a child.) Obviously not that ALL people who have been abused do this, it's just an idea to help explain his behavior.
Nothing is wrong with your body or genitals, so please don't think that there is. But please, DO learn a lesson from the experience as a whole...
I guess my advice to you for future reference would be : NEVER trust someone you don't know (especially with something as sacred as your own body) because something like this could happen. Just because you like someone, doesn't mean they've earned the right to sleep with you. If you want a relationship with a man, wait to have sex. Get whatever you want out of him before you "give it up" whether that is something as simple as respect, or maybe a commitment, or perhaps even money. Whatever it is you want, make sure you have it BEFORE sex, because he sure as Hell won't give it to you after wards - he has nothing to work for, you gave him the prize already.
Tracey111 is exactly right. If you listen to anyone's response, listen to hers. |
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JohnJSmith
Joined: 26 Apr 2009
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Reading this thread made me really mad, but not because of him being an asshole....
Sorry but saying it was "rape" because he was rude to you is wrong on so many levels. It is insulting to women who have actually been sexually assaulted and to men who have been falsely accused of such things.
Yes, he was a jerk, and luckily for you there is no reason you ever have to speak to him again. But if you make false accusations I hope karma finds you and it backfires. |
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Happy_Fruit040
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The guy was a bit of a douche for saying your genitalia is funny and hairy. Everyone's genitals are different, and he should respect it. On the other hand, this wasn't rape. Rape is SERIOUS BUSINESS and it shouldn't be thrown around like that. Sorry if I'm going to make you made about this.  |
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raven_lady
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First off, you approached this guy a number of times and got "mixed" signals. With a guy that probably means he wasn't interested, which is not at all a knock on you, not every a guy woman meets is going to be necessarily. But since you kept at it I feel he figured that it was easy sex, a sure thing, so why not?
The guy was a jerk to treat you like that but what he did does not warrant reporting him to the authorities or to an agency. From now on if you don't want to have sex - don't. Doing so to get a guy will only get him or keep him for the moment if he's not into you as a person and you'll only feel worse feeling used for sex and dumped.
If you feel other women need to be alerted to this guy what you could do is post his profile on this board. |
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courtneyiscool
Joined: 26 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 12:34 pm Post subject: Definitely report this guy to the authorities if you feel |
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| like you were assaulted. Otherwise, if it was a thing where you were a willing participant, but still aren't comfortable with the way this guy behaved, by all means, do has Raven_Lady advises and post him on this site. Other women need to know about this guy! |
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SAC289
Joined: 17 Dec 2008
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| Posted: Fri Sep 04, 2009 7:48 am Post subject: |
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IS this cunt serious ? I can't believe some of the responses in here. Do women really hate men this much ? I have my issues with women but I would never go as far as trying to destroy a woman's life, like rape accusations would do to a man's life.
So this guy laughed at your gentials, big fuckin' deal. If a woman laughed at the size of a man's penis, everyone else would laugh with her and mock the man, not accuse her of rape. What the fuck is wrong with you ?
And I thought this site was for cheaters, if we were to post slander about a member of the opposite sex after every perceived slight, this site would have millions of posts.
Please don't destroy a guy's life just because you feel insulted ladies. |
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courtneyiscool
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| Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 12:15 am Post subject: If you want to have a meaningful dialogue, why don't you |
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| start by not calling the women in this forum names. Women should use this site responsibly. Either post a good review or a bad review of a guy and only if it's true. Don't make allegations that you can't support. That undermines the value and usefulness of this site. |
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SAC289
Joined: 17 Dec 2008
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| Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 6:18 am Post subject: Re: If you want to have a meaningful dialogue, why don't you |
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| courtneyiscool wrote: | | start by not calling the women in this forum names. Women should use this site responsibly. Either post a good review or a bad review of a guy and only if it's true. Don't make allegations that you can't support. That undermines the value and usefulness of this site. |
The woman wants to file rape charges that could destroy a guy's life and you support her ? |
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courtneyiscool
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| Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 12:56 pm Post subject: Since obviously you have a reading comprehension problem, if |
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you go back through this thread what I wrote was that if she was a willing participant, but still didn't like the way the guy behaved, she has an option of posting him on the site. THERE IS NOT A SINGLE COMMENT of mine that states FILE RAPE CHARGES. You're a typical, clueless male who shouldn't be anywhere near this forum.
You can't participate in a dialogue about men and women dating, because you obviously can't read and comprehend what you're reading. And for the record, if a woman is raped by a guy, by all means she should file charges. Should she just get raped and say nothing? |
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SAC289
Joined: 17 Dec 2008
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| Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 3:13 pm Post subject: Re: Since obviously you have a reading comprehension problem |
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| courtneyiscool wrote: | you go back through this thread what I wrote was that if she was a willing participant, but still didn't like the way the guy behaved, she has an option of posting him on the site. THERE IS NOT A SINGLE COMMENT of mine that states FILE RAPE CHARGES. You're a typical, clueless male who shouldn't be anywhere near this forum.
You can't participate in a dialogue about men and women dating, because you obviously can't read and comprehend what you're reading. And for the record, if a woman is raped by a guy, by all means she should file charges. Should she just get raped and say nothing? |
You should have blasted her for even considering filing false rape charges, the fact that not one of you was outraged by her suggestion is very discomfiting to me. As is your general disposition.
Do you really think the typical male is "clueless". If yes, then why don't you turn lesbian ? Why do you women feel the need to punish men and hold grudges for so long ? Do you truly think women are the only ones wronged in relationships ?
Women are no longer the victims, men are. |
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courtneyiscool
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| Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:16 pm Post subject: Ah, hello?! There is nothing in this thread that talks about |
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| filing rape charges. It's not discussed even once. What are you talking about? I think you're just a disgruntled male who can't read and has a problem seeing that there is nothing in this thread that even brings up filing rape charges of any kind. It seems only your posts talk about this. No one else is! |
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SAC289
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| Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 8:06 pm Post subject: Re: Ah, hello?! There is nothing in this thread that talks a |
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| courtneyiscool wrote: | | filing rape charges. It's not discussed even once. What are you talking about? I think you're just a disgruntled male who can't read and has a problem seeing that there is nothing in this thread that even brings up filing rape charges of any kind. It seems only your posts talk about this. No one else is! |
Are you mentally retarded or being stupid on purpose ? The original poster mentions "complaining" to someone about the incident.
Here is a post that says it was rape
| Quote: | um, actually, that is EXACTLY rape and all of you saying it's not need to revisit consent laws.
if you are COERCED into sex (although i didnt want to but he sort of convinced me and i couldnt say no) it is NOT considered valid consent. it has nothing to do with whether or not you could say 'no', consent is defined by many parameters which does NOT require the woman to literally say "no". CONSENT is needed, not a LACK of no.
unfortunately pressing charges is very very difficult to do in cases of rape. but don't let others tell you it wasn't and that it's your fault... it's ENTIRELY his fault as a RAPIST. you cannot be held responsible for his actions. |
I actually thought you were reasonable at first but you're acting deranged now. You didn't answer my question, why not leave men be and turn lesbian ?[/quote] |
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Wick3d78
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| WOW. I hate when bitches throw the word "rape" around like it's nothing. |
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Sassie*Lollipop*
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| Posted: Fri Nov 20, 2009 8:05 pm Post subject: what the hell is wrong with you? |
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| This just pisses me off, how you can try to say that he kinda raped you or whatever you allowed it to happen , and just because it didn't go your way is no reason to talk how you are, if he would of called you the next day you wouldn't even of posted this forum, you need to grow up alot!!! Omg, I'm so mad at this, I'm a female but this this is why i prefer not to have female friends you all are so over dramatic , i only have 2 female friends who are alot like myself that also would rather hang out with guys then stupid females such as this one, who think that because she got her feelings hurt think that it is ok to try to get back at a person by complaining they did the unthinkable to them such as rape, well you need to stand up for yourself by not sleeping with the first guy that shows you some attention, it was your own fault for allowing this man to do what he did. |
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