he was married 14 times

[Barbaraa1950]

I married a man that was married 14 times.He lied about the number.
He lied about the bad discharge from the Marine Corp.
He lied about how many times he was in prison.
He cheated 3 times that I know of. He drinks heavyly at night and takes pills for PTSD from Viet nam.Ibelieve that after all the years of takeing pills he is addict. I had to pick him up off the floor at night.
2 years ago I went to visit my kids I can home to everything gone even the phone line. I let him back only 2 years later he started the whole thing again,
I am selling my house which was mine before the marriage he even tried to sell my house when I was not home. My family hate him.
He is trying to contact me by phone or e-mail He tries to make me feel bad that I put him out after I found the devorce papers in the computer.
He had on e-wife ( 10 ) call me to tell me she signed for his apt. and a car
and the cell phone.She tried to make me feel bad about him being 63 and haveing no monies. He didn't have any in the begining he leaves off a VA PENISON. HE has never been made to pay any of these women anything for all that he has done the gov. pensions are procted.
He has a son that he does't even know he left him over 35 years ago.
He has done prison time he is a felon. (hard time in TEXAS)
Why do I let him upset me the way he does?

[sincereheart55]

Hey! There is a good reason for feeling upset, but I hope it is because he riped you off, and lied stole and cheated, and is a loser.

Men like him look for woman they can prey on and make them feel guilt, and gain access into their financial security.

I was a second year law student when I met my creep. I ran BCI on him, but some did not come up. Like the 4th wife, and the arrest for domestic. I came home from our final trip, knew enough then to pay the extra money to find out all I needed about him. It was enough to know, he was a fake , phony and liar.

I was speared a life of hell with him. He would never have gotten to call me a second time, if I knew, what I knew. My self and other woman from the site we met, found out he was a fake and reported him to the website management, so they got enough to disallow him membership.
I even sent along the documents on our marriage that were a lie.

So, hurt, you should be, but pick yourself up and get going, sell that house, and move a way. Get a restraining order and enforce it.

Best too you.

[courtneyiscool]

was married so many times without telling you! This is why women need DontDateHimGirl.com and background checks. Guys like this try to get away with this stuff and think they can just go from woman to woman conning them. I'm so sorry for what happened to you. You deserve much better than to be with an ex-con who has done so many horrible things.

I will keep you in my prayers! Good luck, girl!

[Guitarista]

Good grief!

I'm so sorry to hear this. Yes, background checks are imperative any more.

Sad but true.

This board is a very practical and good thing.

It would not be necessary if so many men were not such, well, .......you know.

The good guys won't find themselves here. So don't worry fellas.

[Lilah1]

[Lilah1]

I mean learn from the lessons one is given.