home alone

[random_setting]

This may not be the right place for this, but here goes...

My wife and i don't have sex. well, more precisely, we do when she is in the 'mood'. it hasn't always been this way and technically, it's not her fault.

you see, my wife and all her siblings were molested from birth to about 7 by their father. so she is working through it. i think.

normally i would at least be able to talk to her and she does give me some affection. and by some i mean the kind of stuff you can do in a crowded church.

the problem is, she left with her married friends to hang out on the beach for a week or so, assuming she comes back. she says she will, i'm not so sure. so i'm chomping at the bit, so to speak. i need something to get me through, but let's just say that "normal" avenues of relief are prohibited. i need something before i crack.

"what a so and so", right?

[Dads_lil_gal]

Sweety,

I was molested as a child, i never got over it but that does not mean i have to be cold towards my partner. She needs to know how you feel. If she has gone out with her friends and left you alone, call some guys over and have a guys night. When she gets back, sit her down and explain to her that you love her and that you want to help her get over her ordeal. Support her but let her know you cant help her unless she speaks to you. Try that and if it does not work, well how long can you be in a one sided relationship?

Good Luck
Me