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Asena
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 Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 2:36 am Post subject: how to make him to do what ou want? |
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| I am 20 yearold pretty girl, dating with 31 yearold man/ He's very jealous and agressively comunicates with my friends/ I havent' been to a disco or cafe for about already 2 month/ How to tell him that i don't like the way he behave? I love him very much and I don't want to tell smthing that will hurt him |
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cautiousandwise
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| Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 6:18 am Post subject: |
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The reason that he is with someone so much younger than him, is because he wants to control you. Forget telling him you don't like it. LEAVE NOW!! It will only get worse....
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toots2375
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The one thing you should always remember, and it is timeless advice. You cannot change a man. Women have been trying for hundreds of years to mold men into their ideal image. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN!!!! Accept him for his insecurities and controlling behavior or move on. In the future, his behavior will only get worse.
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Foundthebestman
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He is the perfect example of the kind of man that you should stay away from. No matter what you find about him that is nice he has some very bad qualities that cancel all that out. He does not respect you. Don't worry about saying anything to hurt him, you won't hurt him. Men like that are not capable of feeling real emotion. If he acts hurt it's only to use it as a tool to control you. WHY are you worried about HIS feelings anyway???? WHO is worrying about YOUR feelings????? You need to put yourself first, he'll get over it. They always do. It doesn't get any better, things like this get worse, leave him NOW.
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Jasmine 57
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Your not going to make him change no matter what you tell him. Please leave him before he hurts you phisically and you wont be able to get out.
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nadeanbhav
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It sounds like he may be an extremely insecure person. It may be the result of past experiences he has had but then maybe not. If you really want to discuss his behavior with him, then just do it. You said he is jealous and agressively contacting your friends but you didn't say if you had given him a reason not to trust you. If you haven't given him a reason, then discuss it with him. If the same behavior continues after you have talked to him, then you definitely need to leave him if you don't want to spend the rest of your life dealing with his jealously issues. Just my opinion....Nadean
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