Husband Cold As Ice!!!!!!

dragonflyskyler · Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 0

I love my husband but i feel like he cares not as i care about him!He calls me selfish and he was the one that didn't work for 5 years of our marriage i had to pay for everything and take care of our son's.All he ever did was sit on his butt and play the freakin playstation and look at porno everyday.I get so stressed out them my 18 year old brother dies of a SUDDEN HEART ATTACK and i meet my breakin point!!I love him so much but he let me do this to him!
I know this isn't cheating but this is nuts.If he got into some trouble or whatever i would do what ever i could to help him.Why can't he be that way for me!!!

Anyway i guess im just venting!!!!!!

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

OUCH!! This doesn't sound like a happy mariage to me. Perhaps some counseling is in order. Since you are the one who is working, why don't you leave? you pay all of the bills anyway???

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

Seems like your husband has a case of the selfish husband ways. Need to beat the shit out of him or something. Cut the wires on the sony play station and tell him to go get a freaking job or else he will be playing it in a shelter. If you dont like to talk to him then maybe you need to leave for a while and show him that you are sick of his crap.

dragonflyskyler · Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 0

I know that u all right but getting him to go talk to someone. Thats not going to happen with him.So i should leave,that i have done before and it changed for the better for awhile then i guess the NEW wore off or something like that.I guess the only other thing i can do is start kicking his ass and cut him off from everything and smash the playstation (lol) that could get his attention........LMAO

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

Thern leave and STAY gone unless he gets help. THAT is where you retain your power. Obviously he doesn't want to loose you. GREAT.. So, leave, and when he comes begging, give him the business card to a therapist and marriage counselor, and tell him you will come back after therapy starts working, after he has a job for a couple months, after he throws out his playstation...

Jamcojay · Joined: 23 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

First I am very sorry for your loss. Loosing someone as close as a brother can be very hard on a person. I hope you find some solace in your time of grief.