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cuppycake0219
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 Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 2:00 am Post subject: Husband is never in the mood |
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| Usually when you get married it's the wife that never wants to have sex. In my marriage it's the opposite. My husband never wants to have sex anymore. Can anyone give me tips or has anyone heard of this before? |
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jaja7
Joined: 14 Jul 2008
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| Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 6:28 pm Post subject: |
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| how long have you been married?I have never heard of man who didnt want sex 24/7..........are you sure you know what your husband is up to?? just be observant is my only advice |
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ab11cd33
Joined: 12 Jul 2008
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| Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 10:08 pm Post subject: |
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It is a common misconception that all a guy wants every moment of every day is sex. A couple days without wanting it is normal, a couple weeks is a little strange, more than a month there could be a problem. Don't jump on the cheating wagon too quickly, problems like erectile dysfunction can happen even to some younger men. If he has been stressed or traumatized he may not be emotionally capable of sex. If everything is alright, try adding a little extra spice to the bedroom. Wear something a little more revealing or get try a costume of some sort. If this doesn't work try to talk to him about it, tell him your concerns. I am betting you both know something is wrong, the only thing you don't know is what the other person thinks or knows.
As usual, guy opinion, take with grain of salt, do what you feel is right. |
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guy_view
Joined: 30 Jul 2008
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I agree with ab11cd33
I'm a guy, and I don't think about sex 24/7. Also, speaking only for myself, I can be turned off as quickly as I can be turned on.
If I come home from work, and it's been a really crappy, stressful day, I'm not in the mood. If something adds to that stress, then I won't be until it's resolved. Doesn't mean I'm cheating. Just means I'm feeling kinda down.
Money problems can be a huge stopper to sex.
I would worry if there is other changes.
Like alot of discreet phone calls (it's nobody important), all of a sudden he's on the web - more then normal and windows get closed when you peek in. He starts going out when he didn't. Starts buying nice clothes when he never did - just wore blue jeans. Starts buying cologne, when you had a hard time getting him to use speed stick.
when he starts getting really picky about your little flaws. Starts getting cold. Starts becoming very private...
I know all this 'cause I got cheated on (by a woman), so now I know what to look for. |
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