i am being sued because of this site

Mimipres08 · Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 1

Hello,

I am being sued for defamatory of character from this site. Someone posted this guy i was seeing on this site, and he thinks it was me. The reasons are; because when i had a myspace account two of his had ex-girlfriends had contacted me, but before they had contacted me, i had found him on this site and showed it to him, he thought it was one of his ex-girlfriends who postted it. Infact after i found the post of him, i asked his ex's if they knew anything about it. They both denied it, and said they had nothing to do with it. I didnt know what to believe. Then after i told ex #1 she called him immediatly the next day and told him she didnt do it. Then i got suspicous because she prolly got worried he thought it was her, and if she didnt do it she would not have been worried about it in the first place and would have never called him.

Then things got worse when i told him that both of his ex's contacted me to share bad things about him. Of course I'd listen to what they had to say, but i told both of the ex's that i really liked him and nothing they would say would change they way i feel about him, but i still continued to listen what they had to say. Now i wish i didnt, because he frankly and eventually broke up with me, because when he called his ex's to tell them to leave me alone, the ex's both said i contacted them (which was false) I believe the ex's were mad that i told him i that they had contacted me. I told him that ex #2 was trying to sue him for more money to get child support, so i new she had to be mad about that. As with ex #1 she was just mad, because she was still not over him. They both broke up right before he was seeing me. He eventually told me later that he had told ex #1 that he was dating me, after she had jumped to conclusions after stalking his, myspace profile. When at first, he told me he never told her anything about us.

Eventually, all the fingers were pointing there fingers at me, and underpressure i took the blame for everything, hoping that i would fix things between me and the guy. So now he thinks i posted him up on this site and i never did.

After awhile, the drama escalates, gets much, much, much worse. I am away on vacation, and my girlfriend had text messaged me telling me that the guy that i was seeing had messaged her via myspace. Of course i asked what he had to say. My friends said that he emailed her a link to this site, show the post of him. She copy and pasted it to my email, and i read it. (when i got home from vacation) so i go on myspace and search him, and to my surprise it was an imposter profile. Someone else was or is , pretending to be him, and had said all kind of nasty things about him. I forgot to mention, that while i was out of town, i recieved these text messages from him, they were threats. I was like what the heck is going on??? I didnt respond to him until after my friend told me about the whole entire fake myspace profile of him. Because at first i didnt know what he was so mad about. I wantted to know before i said anything.

So now he is really ticked off about all of this, and both of his ex's are tellling him that i did all this. I think i am being black mailed here. I dunno what to do. He said he is sueing me for all of this, since one, i took the blame in the begining to stop all the drama, since he didnt believe me in the first place, and i wantted to get his ex's to stop bothering me because he couldnt stick up for me. Secondly, I know i didnt do it, and since i brought it up to both of his ex's asking if they knew anything about the post of him on this site. Maybe the did, or didnt do it. I just want to find out who did.

There is actually alot more behind all of this, just so much drama to write i tried to write all of what i could.

square813 · Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 246

he cant sue you because he needs proof. the other 2 women well maybe theyre in to threesomes. these profiles are dated when they post so if it was dated before you two dated then that needs to be bought to his attention. and the 2 whores need to get over him and quit letting you take the fall. what is his post under if you dont want to post it send a PM

ellepearl · Joined: 09 May 2008 Posts: 1

Girl
Don't worry about it, that is a real hard case to prove, and if he can actually find an attorney that will take the case he is going to have to drop at least $2500 for a retainer. Let it go and him, he is full of Sh..

DeLana Sattarin · Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Posts: 1

Let me just start off by saying that all of this is drama. Sheer unadulterated drama. As one of the other ladies indicated your ex cannot sue you. First, he would need evidence and Second, he is got your goat. Third, I would not have been talking with the two previous females, fourth, I would not dignify any of this with an answer, fifth, and this is real important so listen up carefully, how do you know the three of them are not in it together? Another thing, it should not matter what anyone else believes, whether you posted the photo of your ex or not. As long as you know you did not, there isn't any need to dignify any of this. I'll say it again, DRAMA!!! That 's all this is.

Personally, it sounds like a bunch of pettiness, child-like behavior from people who are supposed to be adults and vengeful women who don't have anything better to do with their time. Besides, how does the one with a child have time to be worried with someone else's relationship?
Her focus should be on her child not you.

Sweetie, you cannot let any of this get to you, because you will make yourself crazy. Men will sometimes create a situation and stand back and watch the fireworks, which is what this sounds like to me. What you will learn if you haven't already is in the long run none of this is matters and
that some people are into games. Trust me on this one. The two ex's are probably sitting back and having a good laugh at you expense. So, move on. Put this nonsense behind you and whatever you do leave it alone, because when you are dealing with this kind of stuff, it is usually you who will end up on the losing end.

Good luck to you.

chubsoda · Joined: 24 Feb 2006 Posts: 9

Well, he may not be successful in actually suing you for damages, but he can cost you quite a bit of money and aggravation in the long haul. This is the problem; not whether he can really achieve what he is after. Any good attorney is expensive and most of us do not have $3k sitting around to get one. I wish you luck.

jesusthechick · Joined: 14 Jul 2008 Posts: 2

No proof, no case. He's just trying to intimidate you.

kitty8199 · Joined: 26 Jul 2008 Posts: 8

One, he can't prove it was you, two it is not defamation if it is true. As long as the stuff posted was not a lie, it is not defamation. Defamation is using false deragatory statements to injure someone's character.

Humanity2008 · Joined: 25 Feb 2008 Posts: 43

Humanity2008 · Joined: 25 Feb 2008 Posts: 43

Even if you did put informtion about him, you have first Amendement Rights. So I hope you told all those people including the BF to..."Kiss........" The would need to take you and DDHG to the Supreme Court. Read my story about lawsuits. Not only did I paste information about my ex, I also have a full blog:

www.justperfectinLA.blogspot.com