I dont undersstand??

[Coopdeville]

I dated this man for almost five years and within that time frame we bought a home together and tried to make a life for ourselves. The only reason why I am posting his name on this site is to let women know that he is not what you think. I first met him and he told me he was from Miami florida- lie! he lived in Varina... Eastend of Richmond. -Second lie was that he was a "nice guy".

After the first few months he said he loved me and I moved into his apartment. The very next week he cheated on me with a stripper from the Candy Bar!! I should have left then, but didn't so the remaining four years are all my fault.

The next few years were as expected but the occasional outburst of anger were completely unwarranted and totally out of control. Last St. Patricks day he got blacked out drunk and strangled me, then proceeded to destroy our living room furniture and paintings on the walls. I left him then and stayed away from him for a week. AGAIN my fault for going back to him.

He always apologized and promised we would work things out and he would be better with his anger and drinking. Unfortunately, he didn't change and in January he went off on me again. This time I left and we haven't talked since.

I really just want to make other women aware that he is not the cute little boy act that he tries to play. He fooled me once and if I can help avoid the same heartache I will let you all know. AVOID HIM!!

[square813]

well you did the right thing by getting out. if he was getting that drunk he wouldve ended up killing you. but i can tell you from my own experience that theyre always sorry after. its ongoing. time heals the wounds but it cant raise the dead. be strong