I HATE HIM SO MUCH BUT STILL HAVE SEX WITH HIM!

sterlingsilver · Joined: 20 Apr 2006 Posts: 1

To answer your question... yes driving past his house at night is stalking. I know exactly how you feel and even though you know you have to leave him, you feel like you can't. He's NEVER gonna change. He's going to have sex with you and everybody else. Including the two girls he cheated with. The best advice that I could give to you is to delete his number out of your phone, and delete your call history's. Also don't answer his phone calls and don't have sex with him.

darksupanova · Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 11

If you continue seeing him after what everyone here has said you are a stupid bitch and you deserve to get played by him. A guy like that is no good and he will only take advantage of you...because you let him

MissPrissy7 · Joined: 02 May 2008 Posts: 31

darksupanova

Wow I can understand her being stupid Idea

... but a stupid bitch though! lol Shocked

DJ_MI · Joined: 16 Apr 2008 Posts: 10

People... don't be so hard... I don't think she is a bitch or anything like that. She must just be aware of the situation... I repeat what I said before. If you and him are on the same page, have fun! If you know it's just attraction, enjoy the moment. But bear in mind that sooner or later it will pass... you will surely find someone who really likes you and forget him in a blink of the eye.
Ah, and again.... BUT if it makes you suffer.... stop now!

darksupanova · Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 11

Missy and Dj I wasn't saying she was a stupid bitch NOW lol im just saying that if she continues seeing that dick head she is a stupid bitch cuz he obviously doesn't care about her. Who wants to waste time driving past someones house on more than one occasion anyway? lmao I care about the girl!

GTRFTL · Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Posts: 5

Well the only logical solution to this is PIITB.

DJ_MI · Joined: 16 Apr 2008 Posts: 10

What does PIITB stand for? What is it?

Sorry, guys, I'm not a native speaker... Embarassed

soflyma89 · Joined: 24 Jul 2008 Posts: 1

damn u kno wat wen i read this its funny cuz i thought of me... i been there.. i was in a relationship jus like dat but tha guy aint have girls on da side he was jus an asshole and wen we broke up i was still fuckin him i did that for a lil while too until i realized i was better ghan bein a fuck buddy yes da sex was good but i learned dat sex isnt everything and why keep fuckin a guy if all he does is hurt me and treat me like shit... it was hard cuz i really cared about tha guy ut i did it and altho it was hard im happier and am proud to say dat i wont settle for less da next time around in a relationship and will be more careful it was definitely a learning experience so my advice would definitely be let him go cuz at da end of da day ur just a fuck to him anyways abnd u as a woman deserves more than dat

trininsincity · Joined: 10 Oct 2008 Posts: 1

I understand what you are going through. I have been dating this guy for 6 years and he has always had 3 or 4 women at the same time with me, however the sex is the best I have ever had. I know he cheats but don't want to leave.

mgm322 · Joined: 09 Aug 2008 Posts: 3

[quote="Rae_2007"]Its really insane ever since i graduated this year and met this guy in June we have been ""together"" since...He honestly at first was my everything i fell in love with him SO FAST!! He was so attached to me but i started thinking that it was because i didn't know his terrible past with girls!! He has had 2 girlfriends while we've been ""together"" and they BOTH have messaged me on Myspace askin if it was true we slept together and everything. The first time i told her the truth but that brought SO much DRAMA and so much heartache for me but i went back then here comes the 2nd gf messaging me the same thing but this time for some reason i didn't respond to her because i feared a replay of before. All he does is play girls!!!!! He thinks that he's really smart in hiding it and everything but really im 2 two steps ahead of him!! I constantly drive by his house at night if im not there to see who is...Is that stalking????? After all of the LIEING i still go over to his house and we always end up having sex...Part of me thinks that im seriously in love with sex and another part of me thinks that i just dont wanna let go...Please help!! He's not worth ur time. Simply, run dont walk away. He has many women that u know about and u still want to see him? Look at urself and decide what u need to change and why u want a guy like this. www.charmcitylovechat.com[/url]

mgm322 · Joined: 09 Aug 2008 Posts: 3

Simply, Run dont walk away. He has many women that u know about and u still want to see him? Look at urself and decide what u need to change and why u want a guy like this. www.charmcitylovechat.com[/url]

becki1223 · Joined: 24 Oct 2008 Posts: 21

Question: Is his name Chris Lamb from Cedar Rapids, Iowa? Because I seriously think that you just wrote that post about my ex. You're still sleeping with him, because in some way you feel like you can't get anyone that will be true to you and you alone. If you're anything like me and Chris, the only place you get along is between the sheets, so that's where you spend most of your time with him. The only way I got away was that I just had to make a mental list of why I didn't like him, and everytime I thought about calling him or seeing him, I would go through that mental list. Your list may not be as bad as my list, but you may want to talk to a counselor, because it sounds like your self esteem is pretty low. Why else would you subject yourself to this? The sex may be great, but wouldn't it be so much better if you knew that he actually CARED about you. You do deserve someone to love you and have sex with you and you alone. It can take awhile before you believe this, but if you continue to tell yourself this, eventually, you will look at him and say, "You're not as good as I thought you were".

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