I HATE HIM SO MUCH BUT STILL HAVE SEX WITH HIM!

[Rae_2007]

Its really insane ever since i graduated this year and met this guy in June we have been ""together"" since...He honestly at first was my everything i fell in love with him SO FAST!! He was so attached to me but i started thinking that it was because i didn't know his terrible past with girls!! He has had 2 girlfriends while we've been ""together"" and they BOTH have messaged me on Myspace askin if it was true we slept together and everything. The first time i told her the truth but that brought SO much DRAMA and so much heartache for me but i went back then here comes the 2nd gf messaging me the same thing but this time for some reason i didn't respond to her because i feared a replay of before. All he does is play girls!!!!! He thinks that he's really smart in hiding it and everything but really im 2 two steps ahead of him!! I constantly drive by his house at night if im not there to see who is...Is that stalking????? After all of the LIEING i still go over to his house and we always end up having sex...Part of me thinks that im seriously in love with sex and another part of me thinks that i just dont wanna let go...Please help!!

[cherylcelinaw]

Your not in love with the sex you have no respect for yourself. Thats the problem. Hes getting just what he wants and your letting him. Your fault.

[x0xhiszwifeyx0x]

i dont agree with you. Sorry but she has respect for herself she wouldnt if she was banging ten different dudes.

[rosebuttons]

You know this guy is a player and yet you still have sex with him. I hope you are protecting yourself. You are allowing him to use you so you have no respect for yourself. Its not that you love sex you love the attention you get from him. there is going to come a time when he is done with you and your going to get hurt. Start having some respect for yourself and walk away.

[TheCynic06]

If you're having a hard time letting go of him, check the post on Otis Walton and read the comments on him, then think about what could happen if you're not careful.

[KatherineO]

If you love sex as much as you love all caps, then I fear you are doomed to a drawn out relationship full of lies, cheating, and stalking. You can easily find sex elsewhere if that's all you really craved. You either enjoy an abusive relationship or you have no self esteem to search for a better man. However, their is nothing wrong with enjoying sex as long as boundaries are set and you are safe.

[girlslovecum]

its true girls really do love cum!!!!!

[Nosgothic]

If the guy is an absolute player, just stop sleeping with him. Sex is great, but it's a very good way to ruin things if you're being careless about it. Find another guy, this one doesn't care about you.

[MissPrissy7]

Wow…. This is a touchy 1….. I wouldn’t go as far as saying “You don’t respect yourself” but maybe there is a self esteem issue there. I’m NOT judging you because we ALL have made poor decisions in our love life and hopefully this is a learning experience for you. I have to agree with the others and advise you leave him alone ! He doesn’t care about U he’s a dog, pimp, playa playa, whatever U wanna call it & unless you are content with being a SEX BUDDY leave him alone because you will never be more than that. You can have a fulfilling relationship, great sex, & trust your mate and not have to worry about myspace messages and or drive past his house to check on him… & that is stalkerISH… lol but I have to admit I did it ONCE in my past

[courtneyiscool]

a guy is a player, you shouldn't give your mind or body to him because lots of other women are doing the same with the guy. You're too good for that!

[DJ_MI]

1. He is a player.
2. Are you ready to play too?

If the answer for number 2 is yes, go for it. Probably the sex is really good, you guys are intimate, and he makes you climb the walls. BUT, and pay attention, BUT he has proven that he won't give up on the other ladies in his life for you. So, please, go out with your friends, meet other people and beware that sooner or later, you WILL have to let this guy go. Just enjoy the moment... and that's it.

Now... if it makes you suffer, it means you are not ready to play. So, don't even get close to the playground, dear... try to find other things to do...

[j pierre]

i cant believe the comments given by some people who talk about you dont have any respect for yourself. maybe she really does enjoy the sex. the guy is probably great in bed and is really attractive and masculine. so just have sex with him and let go of all feelings and emotional attachment. just keep fucking him as long as you want.

remember that in future maybe you get a very nice and faithful guy as a lover but you'll probably have to compromise on the aatractiveness and masculinity. maybe that guy wont be as good in bed as this one. maybe this guys is well endowed.

so enjoy the sex as long as youre single. player guys are good at sex and its a fact. thats why girls flock to them so much. later they have to cry about how jerk they are. well obviously you were attracted to his good looks.... not his great personality...lol.

[atxdiva]

I agree you need to let go, sometimes we as women get attached only because those men who r players r in fact smooth talkers & they know what to say to a lady and we fall for it. Take it from experience I suspected that he was cheating on me and yes he was I got an STD from the guy and that was my proof but before that I did not want to let go because the sex was good and he was well endowed but I came to conclusion that he is mentally sick and needs counseling and is addicted to sex and lusting after other women.
They will use words to make them sound deep and sincere....and they will easily tell you they like you and you are special to him. he will string you along and will not call it off completely...... He WILL NOT BE THE ONE TO confront problems or topics. He WILL NOT be the one to break it off... He DOES NOT want to look like the bad guy. Instead...He will try to get you to back away....either by distancing himself or making you feel bad, emotionally and physically..... It is hard to explain how they do it....BUT yet you will keep wanting to see him .. They will not show any emotional response to your frustrations. He will NEVER say he is sorry or wrong. He will not take the blame for anything. He is good at what he does...passive-aggressive manipulation. He controls the situation and conversation......you never know that you don't know the whole truth. They can avoid a topic with perfection.... YOU must ask direct and close-end questions...to get the real truth And because he makes you think he doesn't lie... you never suspect him and you will never ask, Omission of the truth ...IS his way of lying. And You Will Think You Are The Only One... It is like you r caught inside the glass with no way out, what u need to do is step outside the glass and assess the situation and tell your self that you are worth it and there is someone else out there more deserving of you? Remember once a cheater always a cheater. Spread you wings and fly.

[j pierre]

i think every girl wants to get her heart broken by the attractive and masculine player before settling down with the ideal husband..lol.

you cannot get water from a brick can you??

[boszybitch]

My comment on this topic is to stop having sex with him! I know its hard but alot of females grow emotionally attached to a guy they are having sex with especially when they cared for that person. if u continue to have sex with him u will never leave him alone and he is going to get what he wants and that is u and other girls!! I know u can do it I have faith in u!