Just found out he's still married! Should I tell his wife?

[crossbronx]

Been with this guy for years, he goes away a lot but because he's in the military I didn't suspect anything, turned out he is still married to the woman he told me he's divorced!

I don't think she knows, should I tell her?

[usapril2009]

To answer your question...Some may say is it really worth telling the wife in my case. I thought it was worth telling her because I had no clue .I didn't even know my ex had kids because he said he didn't. My brother is in the Army and I have a few friends that are also in the Army. I can recall him coming home from Iraq.I had no clue to why he had begin to act funny towards me and until one day I just ask God to let me see the light.I was tired of being a fool for someone that promise to love me and my kids. I was on Yahoo search and for some reason I just put his name in the people search and everything came up. He lied and said he lived with his roommate.It was his wife and I told to her why I was calling and I shared a lot with her ....all the emails that he wrote all the text messages I saved on my phone bill .I told her everything. I wanted her to know but guess what? She's still with him and he stills try to call me. I have nothing to say to him and I will not accept anything from him. If you feel it's going to make you feel better...Hell yeah tell her but have the facts to bag it up. When you do tell her.....you need to make sure you tell to kick rock and find you someone that is truly going to love you and be your man and no one else. He is not going to leave her for you because he don't want that money split in 5 or 6 different ways or don't want to lose his rank.

[Babyfusia]

Girl no just leave him, if you tell her she prob wont listen anyway. I was in a similar situation where a guy I was dating for 2.5 years was married the whole time and I didnt know, she called me [wife] to let me know that he was her husband, but she didnt leave him. Oh well, I sure did.