Love yourself FIRST

[themoonssecret]

Ladies,
The biggest problem I believe we have in relationships is that we put the other person first above our own happiness under the illusion that if they were happy, then we would be happy as well. This is rarely the case.

Its in our genes to want companionship and it is ingrained in us as women to be nurturing, loving and forgiving. Men know this. They take advantage of it.

Put yourself first! Don't feel bad about speaking your mind and don't be afraid to confront him if he is doing you wrong. Chances are that he will just get worse about it and become complacent. Then he will just think its ok to act like a dick all the time.

Hold your head up high. You are worth EVERYTHING. You are beautiful and wonderful and deserve only the BEST. Love yourself first and others will love you for who you are and your mate will recognize this as a strength.

I love you all, for you are all my sisters of the world.

[courtneyiscool]

value themselves at all or they value the guy they're dating more than they value themselves. It's so crazy, but so true. Women, we are worthy of the best! Remember that and don't let a guy take that away from you!