raven_lady
Joined: 03 Apr 2009
Posts: 53
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 Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 9:43 am Post subject: |
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I guess I should elaborate: I met this guy on holiday last fall. Pre-sex he was absolutely wonderful, attentive and gentlemanly. But after sex he was chilly and distant. What gets me is that I probably would not have gone to bed with this man, I expressed concerns to him that he would be like other guys but he reassured me "I'm not going to ignore you" and "I'm not like that". As usual typical guy just wanted in my pants. When I got in touch with him and he called me he told me he would be calling me again the next night but he never did. So when I called him thinking (rightly) he was going to be another dud I explicitly gave him a way out, telling him that I know many guys are like this, the interest wanes after getting sex too soon, so if he wanted nothing more to do with me just tell me. But yet he led me on, leading me to believe he would get in touch with me with plans on when we could meet.
So ladies, if you meet this guy, go ahead if all you want is a roll in the sack but if you want anything more, think hard or at least get to know this guy for a while beforehand so you won't end up just a conquest as I was. I will add that maybe what he did with me might be frowned upon if not against his employer's policy, using his job position to hook up with me. |
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