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hannax
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 Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 2:26 pm Post subject: Married to an asshole |
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Mahoganii
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:18 pm Post subject: Not for nothin... |
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| But you should have left a long time ago. You have kids - leaving is a no brainer. Exactly why would you want to have that kind of man around your children? It's so not healthy for them. I think you need to pack yourself and your kids and just let go. |
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Foundthebestman
Joined: 03 May 2007
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| Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 5:18 pm Post subject: Re: Married to an asshole |
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| hannax wrote: | I have been married to this person for 12 years of hell. This man has cheated on me at least 4 times. He stays out all night doing crack. He has lied to me so many times that I can not trust anything that comes out of his mouth.
I have forgiven him so many times. I can not forgive him again. He has no respect for women and I have none for him. If I did not have kids I would have left years ago. I hate him. |
So the kids are benefiting by you staying with him how? Don't use the kids as an excuse to allow someone to treat you like this. If you really love your kids and yourself you'd want a better life for all of you. Kick him out, see an attorney and get spousal and child support. |
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sunsetgirl123
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| Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 2:16 am Post subject: Head for the Hills |
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| You and you children should head to the nearest abused women's shelter....when I left my ex in 1972 there were no shelters....but I did it with 3 children in tow.....you can do it...my life has been great since the day I left him...I am not saying it was easy....but you have to do it.... |
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rosebuttons
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| Why do you continue putting your kids through this nightmare of a marriage? Dont you think they would be better off seeing you happy. these kids are learning from what they see. My kids have adjusted very well after my divorce and are happier now that we are not together. You need to work on yourself and get into counseling. there is no excuse to stay with a man like this. |
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