Michael Buchanan, Jackson TN-Emotional Abuser

[MzTreeGirl]

I was in a phone relationship for 3 years with this man. We lived in different states. Unfortunately, when we were supposed to meet, things happened and we never met.

First we argued about religion, then it was about other things. He never listened to my opinion. He thought I was avoiding him because he was a "Christian" Doesn't make a difference that I am a Catholic.

I met a wonderful man who I am now engaged to. Mike won't let go. He stalks by phone and text messaging. I changed my number once and because I was stupid...I gave it to him again. Since I told him that I met someone new, he has chosen to make my life a living hell with messages and texts all day long. I refuse to change my number again, as all my contacts are in it. He doesn't understand the word "NO!"

He will send on the average 30 messages and texts throughout the day. I have threatened him with the police and calling his job. He still doesn't get the hint that I do NOT love him. I don't return his calls or his messages. He threatens me with "Admit you did me wrong"

This man is a stalker of the non physical kind...he is mentally abusing me and I can't take it any longer. Since I know he is on the prowl for a "decent" woman, you will probably come across him. He has admitted he has some "problem" but never elaborated on it. I think the problem is he can't stand to be rejected.

[becki1223]

My ex would do the same thing. He would always send me texts saying, "Just admit you never cared about me". I always vowed that I would never tell him that I didn't care, because I really did. But one day, I just told him that I didn't because it was easier and to be honest I was sick of it. It worked. He left me alone. Boys, not men, like that are really just doing to get a rise out of you. Even if you're not responding, he knows it's pissing you off. It may just be better if you just tell him that you did him wrong. You know you didn't and really he knows it too, but if you just tell him, he won't have anything else to say. It sucks, but sometimes you have to play their game to get them to leave you alone.