My Mother

[garf21097]

My mother's husband came to her 2 weeks ago and said he didn't want to be with her anymore. She was so sad, crying all day. He said some very mean things to her like he was attracted to her anymore, he wanted to leave her a year ago but things kept happening like her mother dying and she got sick, etc. He has never been my favortie person in the world. He is just not as in love with her as I think he should. When she came to me and my husband crying my husband told me to stay out of it and not get too mad that they would be back together. Oh I forgot to mention he asked her to leave their home. Needless to say they are back together. He told her he never said any of that stuff and that is the only explaination I heard. I could tell she was on her way back by the way she was talking later that week. I told her that if she was going to work things out to protect herslef better. I told her this because he has access to everthing and she has nothing (money) put aside for a rainy (that mess he pulled) day. She told me he has an account that she doesn't have access to that he is saving in. That is why I told her that (protect herself better). I want to tell her not to tell me anything else in regard to her marriage problems but I am her best friend because she and her sister's are not that close she is always afraid of sharing with them afraid of the judgement. What do I do? I am going to stay out of it from now on. I love my mother dearly and only want her to be happy, but what married people don't understand or maybe they do is when you are mad at your spouse and vent to a friend or relative they love you and remain mad at that spouse and you move on and make up because that's what you do and in the meantime your friend or relative is giving your spouse the crooked eye.

[juliet4life]

Hi,
I am juliet! how are you! hope you are fine and in perfect condition of health.I went through your profile and i read it and took intersest in it,if you don't mind i will like you to write me on this ID:(julietshn@yahoo.com) hope to hear from you soon,I will be waiting for your mail because i have something VERY important to tell you. Lots of love juliet.

[square813]

first of all shes old enough to know she should have a rainy day account. second you went to her for help and advice why cant you return the favor. third maybe she needs to do alittle investigating behind his back find out what hes up too so she can protect herself down the road. husbands can come and go you only get one mom