New England women look out for Richard Brodeur

[angelofwar]

To all New England women
(Especially near Newport, NH),

I just want to warn any potential women that might know Rick, or cross paths with him through the cyber world or real. Richard A. Brodeur II aka "RiCK" or "Rockin' RiCK" has a extensive criminal history, and a history of abusing women. He has abused me emotionally, as well as psychologically. He never hit me but there were times when I could feel the anger off of him like it was touchable. He would use pressure tactics to get what he wanted, verbally attack me, blame me, disrespect me, try to isolate me, intimidate me, pressure me into sex, and harass me. I tried to get a restraining order but to my surprise along with my local police it wasn't extended because he didn't cause "bodily harm" to me. I have been to a local program called HAWC for abused women and learned the warning list. Rick fits the bill:twisted:. He's a narcissistic, selfish, twisted, pervert.

First of all don't be fooled by any man who seems nice at first. They all are, after all they have to make a best first impression. Like all abuser probably do he told his sad story about his bad luck with women. One girl he lived with cheated on him and said he hit her. He went in jail and she sold his stuff, so he followed her when he got out even though there was a restraining order. Then another time this young girl he met online he said, was being abused by her father, so he went and picked her up, drove her back to his state and got arrested. Then of course there's his mom. He says he has never hit her, and she just says that to his gfs to scare them off. Ask one of his sisters though. His mom has him put in a mental institute because he was getting crazy. Police would frequent his house, but no, it wasn't him, so he says. That is only when he told me. I guess there is a lot more the police can't tell me.

So if you are on plentyoffish.com (He's from Newport, NH) don't make my mistake! Looks are very deceiving! What it doesn't say in his profile is that he is abusive, lives with his mother(she does his laundry, makes his bed, pays the bills) and has a car that is falling apart. He's a short abusive jerk who just wants a woman to own like a dog. Just check out his Girlfriend Application on his website at heavens daemon dot com. You'd have to be insane to fill something out like this and send it to him. PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD IF YOU LIVE IN THIS AREA OR ARE DATING ONLINE! I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO GO THROUGH ALL I HAVE IN THE PAST YEAR

[angelofwar]

I forgot to mention that he is obsessive! When we broke up he threatened to kill himself then said he'd cut my initials in his leg. Well he did cut my initials in his leg and send the picture to me. He told me it was to show how much he loves me. Kind of like how Picasso cut his ear off for his gf. Romantic huh? He's a real wacko!!!

[LeftInTheDark]

Most of this post is untrue, and the rest is inaccurate, and biased. It contains Slander, Liabel, and Defamation of Character. This post should be removed, but since the webmasters here are slow to get around to it, I'm including my input here:

Some things Haley Marie Hughes of Essex Massachusetts fails to mention is that she has no job, she lives with her parents and lives off them.
She also fails to mention that she unlawfully refuses to let me see our daughter. She won't even so much as send a picture. She changed her number so I can't contact her, and had her local police threaten me not to, while there is no adjudication against me. The reason she could not uphold a restraining order is because I never did anything wrong, and she proved that in court by failing to be able to tell the judge even one thing I had done against her. Even in her post above she admits I never hit her. Yet she claims she could "feel my anger" like some anger psychic. She also in her post claims I emotionally abused her, but it took her well over a year after we hadn't seen each other to come up with this. Sound like propaganda that HAWC is feeding her.

[angelofwar]

People just have to look up your extensive criminal record to know the truth! PSYCHO!

[bbaylee78]

YEA I KNOW THIS GUY... all i have to say is..... wow girl you need some f**kin therapy...i think your the one that belongs in the mental institution.. you pathetic sympathy seeker! you sit here and talk $Hit twisting all the facts so you dont have to feel like such a piece of $Hit for doing what YOU did to him! you know its B*tche$ like you who ruin all the good men out there. so since you like the attention and sympathy from others cause your mother WHO YOU LIVE WITH is a controlling psycho B*tcH and you dont know how to deal with her constantly putting you down & guarding every move you make your gonna take it out on rick? THAT'S JUST NOT NORMAL!!! who's the STALKER?? the OBSESSED ONE? sounds like you sweetie....putting this trash out ONLINE (cause you have so much time on your hands cause YOU DONT HAVE A JOB) trying to destroy his life more then you already have, all he wants from you is a chance to meet and spend time his daughter. you wanna talk twisted n controlling?? what the f**k do you think your doing when purposely keeping his daughter away from him when you KNOW she's NOT going to be in harms way when she's with him... oh yea being a twisted controlling paranoid b*TcH! you know what though let me change that your a twisted controlling paranoid selfish B*tCh! maybe theres some kind of support group you can go to for that. with all this crap your saying about ricky who really is a genuine nice guy the saddest part about it is that your so pathetic that your keeping a child away from her father...a good father...you dumb B*tcH you have no clue what your doing to your daughter! and dont forget honey there is a dont date her guy web site t plain a$$hol3 self !

[angelofwar]

[princessdjlb]

First of all I just want to say that I do know Rick well, since I am dating him, and I realized that 95% of the bullshit you posted online is false, and what I do see is that you're the one with the problems, because nobody with morals or self respect would put someone else down like that, especially when you both have a child together. If Rick was really such a bad guy, why the hell did you wait so long to write up this stupid post. Sounds like you feel so bad about yourself, that you have to make yourself feel better about taking away his daughter for no reason. I bet you are not perfect, in fact, I bet you're the bitch, and all Rick wants to do is see his daughter. No good mother would ever do that to their kids. I bet you are just afraid that he would be a better father then you would be a mother to her. You said he pressured you into sex, yea I hardly doubt that, if that was true why the hell did you keep going back for more, and on top of that, after he supposedly forced you into sex, then you had a kid with him. He has not ever once pressured me, and when I say no he listens, and he treats me really good. You must have not treated him very nice, not saying he is perfect, but I have not once ever feared or been afraid of him, plus that is also because I'm not a weak person and I make my own decisions, unlike you, who needs to do whatever your mommy tells you. It's really pathetic that you make Rick out to be such a bad guy, about how his mom buys his food and does his laundry, and he lives at home, but how funny that your parents do the same for you. At least rick has a job, and you dont, you let your parents pay for you and the baby, how responsible? I just hope that one day karma is a bitch and you get it back ten times more then for what you did to Rick. It also states that he is a stalker and is obsessed, well funny, he is not the one after a year, posting stuff online, and you are the one that goes on all his band sites and checks everything out, and his plenty of fish site, that you have to steal his pics to post on this site. Sounds pretty psycho and stalkerish to me, don't ya think? Plus if he was such an abusive jerk and an assh@le to you why did you keep coming back to his house, and back to yours, for a whole year. So it must not have been that of a bad of a relationship. You also said that when you guys broke up, but you never broke up with him! You left him a note saying that you needed time to think, and stated three times you loved him. Now that is weird, if I was that afraid of somebody, I sure as hell wouldn't have left a letter like that. You never told him that you wanted to break up with him. You just left when you were pregnant, how mature, you are the one that needs to grow up. You said that he tried to kill himself, and carved your initials in his leg, but hey, nobody is perfect, and honestly, if I just left a guy like that and took his daughter, and he was so hurt, that I would probably understand why he did it. Just to clear that up, he did not try to kill himself. So just get it right, and the thing with his mom, she drives, cooks for herself, and walks up and down stairs all day, and works too. Now does that really sound like someone who is crippled? I think not! Maybe you need glasses! Also Rick is not the one that twists things around, its you, I can prove it on one post, you said you only dated him for six months and on this one you said a year. If you can get those simple facts wrong, what makes you think that all the other stuff is accurate? Makes one wonder who is really lying in this whole situation. If you weren't obsessing over it, you would not have been on this site! So everything you said about him, you're just as guilty as him, so get over it and move on. You're not that special to dwell on, and my guess is that you regret your decision about leaving him, so you are writing this to make sure that he is never happy with anyone else. Well it apparently didn't work, because he is happier with me than with you anyday, trust me on that, and I think you planned all along to get pregnant and leave him, and if it wasnt, it was beacuse of what other prople put in your head. You have to start standing up for yourself or you will be a very miserable person in life. What you also failed to mention in here, and what might change peoples minds, is if Rick was such an awful guy to you and stuff, how come when you were already pregnant, did you say yes to marry him when he asked? I know if I was scared for my life, I wouldn't have said yes to him! I just think you are so confused and mentally abused by your mom, that you think eveyone is abusive to you. So you're the one that needs to get a llife and go to therapy, but second thought it probably wouldn't even help you anyways, so instead of screwing with other people's lives, learn the facts and know that life is a bitch, and you will get it back for the way you treated him. Trust me, people with as lousy morals as you have, will never learn, and are so quick to judge, when its usually them that are wrong. Another thing you always go back and use, is what he told you in confidence, but you're a back stabbing bitch that is using it and twisting things around. That shit was in his past, and I garauntee that you have some shit in your past too that you wouldn't want to come online either. One day you are really going to mess with someone that is not going to take it well when you talk shit behind their back, so I suggest you look real hard at yourself and ask your self one question, who is the one that has to live with the regrets and actions that you did to yourself and to Rick? I just hope you realize that you missed out on a good guy, and he would have been an awesome father! You're the bitch that did this, and messed him up, and the entire relationship, not him. So I hope you find someone that treats you the way you treated him, or not, you really dont deserved to be loved, not then, and def not now!!