New York Women & Actresses - Avoid Joe Swift

[walterina]

What first: his not consummating our 10-year relationship and giving me multiple lies about it over the years? His pathological and never ending lying about all things large and small? His secret vacation where he met up with, as he told me, a gay group? His attraction to children's activities and his (as he told me several times in our 10 years, but has since denied when I ask if he's a pedophile) being fired from a teaching job for inappropriate contact with a child? His online chat buddies with weird obvious sexual names (for example - steve6969). He's always looking for actresses for his "projects." I was duped by his Mr. Nice Guy act for a decade. Well, I take that back, my low self-esteem allowed me to keep being duped by him because as the years went by I learned more and more of the bad. (Oh, one other thing, he's not paid me back for several loans - so if you loan him money - don't expect it back.) (And don't buy the "i really want children" act - I went through all the fertility shots and the doctor kept saying "you know, you two can have sex too, but Joe wasn't interested. when the doctor inseminated me (which luckily for the child failed), Joe was on his blackberry doing God-knows-what. The doctor got mad and said "Did you want to come over here while I am making your child?") I could go on and on, but hopefully you get the picture.