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every1suspec
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 Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 10:03 pm Post subject: no satisfaction!! |
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I dated this guy for a year, he is a good guy with good intentions and a lot of stories about the good ooold days!! (when sex was really good) Directly, we enjoyed one anothers company, but the sex was just as old as the stories.
For that entire time I did't have not one orgasm!! I've tried to spice it up and he says, oh yea!! thats good baby, but he don't return the favors. If I give head I want head back and he'll start and stop saying, ""I don't like this"" so I'm still HORNY AS HELL!!! Help me please, I could just die! |
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anacleta
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wow, i have a very similar problem, only it is the beginning of the relationship. we've been having sex for 4 weeks. he sure loves to get head, but he'll only eat me out for a minute and god knows that's not enough time for me. what is going through his mind when he climaxes then immediately gets all confortable in bed and turns on the TV? Other than that, he's the picture perfect, right out of a movie, awesome guy. That's why I keep telling myself to give the guy a chance. But how long should I give him? But girl, a year is definitely too long. Break free before you're married and stuck to secretly using a vibrator for life!!
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cautiousandwise
Joined: 10 Jul 2007
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You have to tell your man and SHOW your man how to give you pleasure. If he loves you he will want to pleasure you. If he doesn't want to learn, then you have to decide whether a shitty sex life is worth losing a relationship over.
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cherylcelinaw
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The problem is that you all let things continue on and on now it is how long? If he wasnt satisfying you why are you waiting so long to tell him.
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Mz.iNdEPENdENT88
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uh, let that g0 h0ney!! if he d0nt wanna return fav0rs y0u better g0 t0 the Hustler st0re i kn0w they g0t s0mething in there that cca fix y0ur pr0blem.
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mattg356
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Sex can show how good a man's listening skills are. If he listens and care about you he will want to do what it takes and do it with you. This guy just want to get his rocks off. he is selfish!
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jaymn
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| Iv never been w a guy who got me off. If Im on top, thn its possible. But then again, Im doin the work...LOL. |
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catscalw
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| mattg356 wrote: | Sex can show how good a man's listening skills are. If he listens and care about you he will want to do what it takes and do it with you. This guy just want to get his rocks off. he is selfish!
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I agree completely: this guy is selfish. |
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guy_view
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| Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:16 pm Post subject: |
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| catscalw wrote: | | mattg356 wrote: | Sex can show how good a man's listening skills are. If he listens and care about you he will want to do what it takes and do it with you. This guy just want to get his rocks off. he is selfish!
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I agree completely: this guy is selfish. |
I'm a guy and I've heard some men (who are lazy and selfish) who don't return the 'favor' - This is very possible. what was his upbringing like towards woman. this might shed some light (which can still point to selfish).
On a side note, some guys are easily turned off as they are turned on. There are also a few guys I've talked to who are just not willing to do it. they are actually very turned off at even the thought of it.
Not to suggest anything rude here, but some guys really prefer girls who are 'fresh outta the shower, squeaky clean' before they'll 'go down'.
In other words, Not suggesting you're not clean, but have you tried coming right out of the shower, THEN seeing if he'll go down on you?
If nothing works and he won't discuss it, and there's no bad history to his means, I would agree with the above quotes. Probably doesn't care about returning your needs. |
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