Norman Heslop

[jen29210]

About the erronous information written by his angry ex

I have known this man for a long time and have found him to be gentle,caring and DEFINITELY not gay.In the time I have known him,I can say that I have been inspired when he played the piano or sang those beautiful songs with his God given angelic voice.He has always been respectful to me.Everything you claim here does not sound like him.
It is obvious that you are very angry with him for "dumping" you and want to get back at him for ending the relationship before you gave him permission to do so.If he "got into your pants" that is because you agreed to it.I know he would not if you were against it.What do you want from him or other men who got in your pants? Honorable mention,hush money,a life of loneliness? What will it take to satisfy your anger?You posted these stories because your relationship did not work out.
I usually don't respond to such postings but yours has a lot of issues that made me wonder about the type of person who would write such disgusting untruths about a man who simply wants out of a bad relationship.You stated that you know at least "9 women he conned and used." Was this before you had a relationship with him or after he "dumped" you? I can't imagine you would have a relationship with someone you know "conned and used" other women or you watched silently while other women went through a painful ordeal.You also stated that he "is closet gay and effeminate" If he was,why did he have to dump you? Common sense tells me that you would not have waited to be dumped by a man who had all those qualities.Where you married to him and felt like it was your cross to bear? In any relationship,it takes two and the two people have to agree to deal with each other.He wanted out,wish him well and move on with your life.
I can believe you are hurt by the breakup and that you did not want it to end.For that, I feel for you as a female like you.However,to post horrible untruths about another person online just because of the need to hurt or control them in someway is not only evil but also shows how mentally unsound a person's thinking can become.I pray that you have peace in your life and that you get over this soon.Peace!